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I'm not sure about other girls, but I know that I don't like it when guys come off as too desperate. I like to get to know someone before I start talking about kissing, having a relationship, ect. And emailing 3/4 (or more) times a day gets annoying!
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I'm not sure about other girls, but I know that I don't like it when guys come off as too desperate. I like to get to know someone before I start talking about kissing, having a relationship, ect. And emailing 3/4 (or more) times a day gets annoying!  I dont like when guys are desperate either
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Alack & alas, before email, it was phone calls several times a day!! Talking about kissing & relationship stuff too soon is toooooo weird!!
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Can I have your number, can I call you , what are you doing rite now, I'D like to send you a phone so I can call you all the time....
 ( Sorry just Joking)
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you may just have this effect on men?
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and when a girl is too desperate she sounds like a prostitute
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And some of the guys are really nice guys, so I don't want to just blow them off, but I feel like just blocking them. Guys, would you prefer to be told that you're being annoying, or would it just be better to block you right away without any explanation?
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Coming off as desperate from the start, makes me want to RUN, fast and far, far away
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Guys act desperate???
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myself i would rather be told
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I hear ya cat! Tru dat! Lol.
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Be honest & up front dear.The other alternative sounds rude 2 me(jmo)
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 I'm complicated
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And some of the guys are really nice guys, so I don't want to just blow them off, but I feel like just blocking them. Guys, would you prefer to be told that you're being annoying, or would it just be better to block you right away without any explanation? all you have to do is tell them slow down.. plain english is easier to understand than riddles and guessing games.. we're damned if we do damned if we dont...
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Lol. Me2g, if I told a really desperate guy to slow down, then I'd get "I'm sorry" emails from him for like a MONTH or longer! Lol.
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well thats when you tell him to stop... dont call me ill call you.. lol if that dont work invite him over to watch the whole first season of the "L" word that'll stop him dead in his tracks...
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I'm not sure about other girls, but I know that I don't like it when guys come off as too desperate. I like to get to know someone before I start talking about kissing, having a relationship, ect. And emailing 3/4 (or more) times a day gets annoying! I agree and that should go for Men/Women because women have been pushy with me on this site and i don't deal with it so ill move on... |
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Be honest & up front dear.The other alternative sounds rude 2 me(jmo)
well either way, it's the internet. some things should not be taken so seriously |
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well if I was interested in someone I would want to hear from them as much as possible. Maybe it is jsut me, but I get texts/emails multiple times from my friends daily. Maybe you are stringing too many people along? It really sounds to me like you are the one with the problem, and they are the ones trying to get to know you. There are two sides to every coin
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ok so these are the things i can't do in a first message:
Make a marriage proposal Ask how many kids are we going to have Ask when she's going to move in with me Ask when she wants to meet my parents you know,you're ruining my mojo  
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