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Topic: Why did your last relationship end?
rebkel Joined Wed 10/24/07 Posts: 205	Thu 03/20/08 10:59 AM
My last relationship ended because I want to get married and start a family one day, and he didn't. We had a fantastic relationship, and it was the hardest decision I've ever made. We are still the best of friends, and it was definitely the right decision. I wouldn't change anything.

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Thu 03/20/08 11:00 AM
i told him i was pregnant he left and went to australia wow, a bit drastic yep he didnt want the responsibility, he came back eventually but i have no relationship with the guy, he sees his son

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 03/20/08 11:02 AM
Found out he was using drugs.

cats219 Joined Wed 08/01/07 Posts: 2663	Thu 03/20/08 11:03 AM
I cought him in a lie. So there wasnt any trust.

Swepea43 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 328	Thu 03/20/08 11:04 AM
He was/still is an alcoholic and was verbally abusive when drinking. Among other issues. We do still remain friends. But as a couple no way!!

Runpenzo Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 1084	Thu 03/20/08 11:04 AM
My last relationship ended because I wasn't good enough, no matter what I did, brought her flowers, bought her gifts just to tell her how much she meant to me, cooked romantic dinners at home, took her out to restaurants, picnics on the weekends, driving her up to the rest stop halfway up Mt. Lemon just to watch the sunset together, but I was never good enough, I never did enough so she cheated on me twice and eventually ran off with one of my friends and my car and all of my money and my self respect... Meh oh well sh*t happens and if you don’t risk failure you’ll never succeed

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Thu 03/20/08 11:04 AM
lies,cheating even skamming me for money

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Thu 03/20/08 11:06 AM
My last relationship ended because I wasn't good enough, no matter what I did, brought her flowers, bought her gifts just to tell her how much she meant to me, cooked romantic dinners at home, took her out to restaurants, picnics on the weekends, driving her up to the rest stop halfway up Mt. Lemon just to watch the sunset together, but I was never good enough, I never did enough so she cheated on me twice and eventually ran off with one of my friends and my car and all of my money and my self respect... Meh oh well sh*t happens and if you don’t risk failure you’ll never succeed ok stop there, you are only as good of a person as you feel, never allow anyone the power to belittle you nor let anyone's misconceptions of you make you think less of yourself. if what you do is done with good intentions, not ur fault/loss

PragmaticMind Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 1098	Thu 03/20/08 11:06 AM
Abusive men tend to make me turn and go the other direction Yes, indeed we learn to walk the other way (though not all) .. Unfortunately, it took me many, many years to gain enough strength to leave my marriage (the final time). Even though it seemed to have hurt emotionally (more so for my kids), it was one of the best decisions I've made. We're even friends now & he's tends to be great w/ other women But then the long road came as to how I was going to heal and learn to be strong.. Now, I hear I'm too strong of a young lady (that very well could be).. but I'd much rather be this way, than to be ones daily doormat. p.s. Good for you.. not everyone understands how difficult it can be to walk away from an abuser. Many people are just too scared of what life has after they walk and some have never experienced such trauma

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Thu 03/20/08 11:07 AM
His excuse was he couldn't take the stress of me being a full time college student and working full time. So he dropped me. :0(

sandra0607 Joined Mon 03/17/08 Posts: 250	Thu 03/20/08 11:08 AM
he passed away

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 03/20/08 11:09 AM
My last relationship ended because I wasn't good enough, no matter what I did, brought her flowers, bought her gifts just to tell her how much she meant to me, cooked romantic dinners at home, took her out to restaurants, picnics on the weekends, driving her up to the rest stop halfway up Mt. Lemon just to watch the sunset together, but I was never good enough, I never did enough so she cheated on me twice and eventually ran off with one of my friends and my car and all of my money and my self respect... Meh oh well sh*t happens and if you don’t risk failure you’ll never succeed You weren't good enough? How about she wasn't? She cheated on you. You didn't cause that.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 03/20/08 11:13 AM
My ex, unknown to me at the time, has a mild "personality" disorder where he would fly into rages so bad that he would try and kill us both on the freeway going 48903478932478923 miles an hour!!! I dont do rage!! It doesnt sit well, especially for no reason.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 03/20/08 11:15 AM
My last relationship ended because I wasn't good enough, no matter what I did, brought her flowers, bought her gifts just to tell her how much she meant to me, cooked romantic dinners at home, took her out to restaurants, picnics on the weekends, driving her up to the rest stop halfway up Mt. Lemon just to watch the sunset together, but I was never good enough, I never did enough so she cheated on me twice and eventually ran off with one of my friends and my car and all of my money and my self respect... Meh oh well sh*t happens and if you don’t risk failure you’ll never succeed You weren't good enough? How about she wasn't? She cheated on you. You didn't cause that. Amen Winx

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Thu 03/20/08 11:15 AM
My ex, unknown to me at the time, has a mild "personality" disorder where he would fly into rages so bad that he would try and kill us both on the freeway going 48903478932478923 miles an hour!!! I dont do rage!! It doesnt sit well, especially for no reason. even with a reason rage should not be tolerated.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 03/20/08 11:16 AM
My ex, unknown to me at the time, has a mild "personality" disorder where he would fly into rages so bad that he would try and kill us both on the freeway going 48903478932478923 miles an hour!!! I dont do rage!! It doesnt sit well, especially for no reason. well I meant, a rage that bad would have been good enough for say, I murdered his mother or something......not over stupid stuff like you didnt buy me fries at mcdonalds!!! even with a reason rage should not be tolerated.

tallandtttanned Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 3103	Thu 03/20/08 11:17 AM
we broke up because he was seeing other people. I hate cheaters. If you dont want to be with someone. Tell them. and my baby daddy and I broke up because he was childish and he said he was not ready for a baby.. maybe it is the car you have up on your profile just kidding i had to do that SORRY

jonny63 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 5229	Thu 03/20/08 11:19 AM
My ex, unknown to me at the time, has a mild "personality" disorder where he would fly into rages so bad that he would try and kill us both on the freeway going 48903478932478923 miles an hour!!! I dont do rage!! It doesnt sit well, especially for no reason. well I meant, a rage that bad would have been good enough for say, I murdered his mother or something......not over stupid stuff like you didnt buy me fries at mcdonalds!!! even with a reason rage should not be tolerated. His fits of rage showed his immaturity

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Thu 03/20/08 11:22 AM
My last relationship ended because I wasn't good enough, no matter what I did, brought her flowers, bought her gifts just to tell her how much she meant to me, cooked romantic dinners at home, took her out to restaurants, picnics on the weekends, driving her up to the rest stop halfway up Mt. Lemon just to watch the sunset together, but I was never good enough, I never did enough so she cheated on me twice and eventually ran off with one of my friends and my car and all of my money and my self respect... Meh oh well sh*t happens and if you don’t risk failure you’ll never succeed if you don't risk failure you'll never succeed--- how true!

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Thu 03/20/08 11:22 AM
My last relationship ended because I wasn't good enough, no matter what I did, brought her flowers, bought her gifts just to tell her how much she meant to me, cooked romantic dinners at home, took her out to restaurants, picnics on the weekends, driving her up to the rest stop halfway up Mt. Lemon just to watch the sunset together, but I was never good enough, I never did enough so she cheated on me twice and eventually ran off with one of my friends and my car and all of my money and my self respect... Meh oh well sh*t happens and if you don’t risk failure you’ll never succeed if you don't risk failure you'll never succeed--- how true!