theres this person who lives in my town. Was thinking of asking if she would ever like to jog together. probably a bad idea with woods and forests and stuff, without other people around... could get knifed. I dont know... But Im a little confused about the things my age does, besides sex, drugs, school, and dancing. Do people still do normal stuff like walk, talk, and shop together, or is that lame?

Whenever my EX and I couldnt find something to do, wed go to a store and buy a snack we never tried before, and rented a movie we never watched. Is that lame for a first date? how do I get to the actual relationship part to do that kind of stuff? cause I dont really like movie theaters, and spending $40.00 dollars on a 30 minute meal..

whats the 'normal' now days?
BTW, I suck at dancing, and I hate it.
...probably why I suck at it.

it seems like anymore,if alcohol isn't involved than people don't do it

dont need to spend alot for a date..picnics, walking, museams, beach days out , local beauty spots, dvds and a bottle of wine, learning to do something new together, list goes on

My last date we went skydiving! Of course I'm an adrenaline junkie and highly competitive so I loved it..I myself hate the bars and any crowded situation..I prefer paintball, going to the shooting range, skydiving, base jumping or riding dirtbikes when I go on a date..

People still do normal stuff....yes. I like to shoot pool with my new guy.

people actually have 'picnics' ?

I thought thats what you do with family when camping and fishing, never thought of it as a date...

walking is fun, if in the right spot, otherwise its loud and full of assholes in cars. not much for museams, maybe zoos if they let you pet the animals, besides farm animals, but theyre like 10.00 - 50.00 a person. beach is kind of kewl, I dont know if I could pull something like that off on a date though.

local beauty spots? say what?

oh my

how do you arrange something like that?
does someone just ask you to join along, or do you plan out your date together?

yeh you find a nice place to park your bum set a picnic out and chil and chat...can be at the beach, park local beauty spot, zoo, where ever

I tend to date Army soldiers seeing that I'm Army myself. So this is how I'm asked, Hey Specialist Danette what are you doing Saturday, wanna go skydiving~shoot guns~go hang off a cliff etc... That's how it's planned sometimes short notice but it's great to date people become friends with people that have common interest...