Ive been divorced since 2003, I met a guy a little after that was with him for along time, but he was very physically abuses when he was drunk. Than it ended. I know there are guys are there that dont want a already made family. I guess I dont really go out and "look" for a guy. Thought maybe talking to someone online would be ok. Ive talked to a few SOME just want sex or a skinny person. Well, I just dont want sex and I will never be skinny, Im adv. Im a very caring person, It wouldnt matter to me if they had kids. Some guys think that kids come 2nd.........my boys are my world......ive been asked to leave them home and go out....hell no they are only 6 and 7. Im so sick of the bar scene, I dont get it. I just dont get it. I just want to be happy and grow old with someone. I work hard and everything I have I baught it, no one has ever gave me a break, the only break that Ive got was a broken heart..........

OMG.... i would hate to put my children threw that type or abuse... and i kno u hated it... ur childs are handsome young men .. and u will find love.. just give it time

thanks for the update

yea I have been there also.. its hard to go thru... if u ever need sumone to talk to u can email me on here.. but goodluck on ur search

There are good guys out there. It takes time to find the right one.

I can't think of any other analogies, other than rome wasn't built in a day, it takes time, baby steps if you will, you can't rush what you can't control.

if what you seek is a LIFE LONG commitment, then i whole heartedly applaud you for standing your ground and not settling...

i will tell you however, that you have a long and winding road ahead, and you have the RIGHT ideas. When you find that perfect one, you will know youve made the right choice