John~~~

The point here is not to treat all woman like those you have run across before. There will be (note future tense usage here) a woman who responds. Holding her to all the actions of those that did not respond is not a helpful tool to place in your arsenal.

Shy is a pretty subjective term.
I notice many who call themselves shy... yet they often post things I'd never consider posting about myself... and I tend to post quite a bit in regards to who I am, if it applies to the topic at hand and might be of help to someone.

I've also read some of what a few of the girls receive in emails here from self professed shy men... Again.. You'd never see me write some of the things I've read. Which struck me as anything but shy.

Frankly... If I feel I am being ignored by the majority of the people I am trying to engage? Chances are ~ my delivery probably needs some work, or I am trying to engage the wrong people...

That is something that I can do something about. Which really seems to be more productive then blaming it on being shy..or blaming it on the people who are ignoring me.

I am not holding other peoples ( woman ) to pass people actions, never would, never have... as well as I wouldn't think that's fair and or right to do.

There ya go. Now you just need to get back to actually sending mails, so that there is something to reply to.

Yeah.