ms...your braver than I, good for you!

It's all about making friends, they can be any age.

Fun to flirt, but I'm not a cougar either.

There ya go!!

My dear, we live in a very controversial world.....
People who are not happy with themselves always take offense to something that is not complimentary to their favor.....
Not all Woman /Men have a good sense of humor......
The Quality Real Woman support you ............
The ones that are offended are insecure people and you don't want them in your life...

Who cares what all people think.....
You know what you want/desire/makes you happy......
Entertain the masses with your opinions and comments!!!!!

Said the one who likes being called "MILF".

Quickly approaching 50, MILF is a compliment, like getting carded. Which happened today! woo hoo

That's all it is though...

I'll be friends, even coach on occasion..haha

Not what I'm looking for however.

I get called a MILF often...

I have aguy here who shoots me a e-mail calling me the marine milf...

At my age..ya its a compliment..

it's todays lingo...

I find it funny..I don't take it seriously...

And I also wouldn't want to be with a guy who I could be his mother..

So upland u r correct in ur wants..let them be pissy...

Besides all these young guys who want older woman..they are just in a fantsiy world..in my eyes...

MMost of them any way...

Wow...this was much more constructive than destructive...I thought it would be the other way and I'd get more hate mail.

So thank you to those who except and understand my opinions and views.

plain and simple...i applaud you for saying up front what you want and don't want. if someone doesn't like it then that is their problem

exactly...

Okay .. first off I've never emailed you & wouldn't .. I don't hunt young guys. I just respond to the ones who write me.

Second, if you say straight up you don't want older women, nothing wrong with that. A lot of women write things about either older/younger men in their profiles. More power to ya to get it out there. Actually, now that I think about it I do put it right in my profile that I date younger. I do it in order to weed out the older guys that would potentially be interested (but they don't take it too well either - like you say) Maybe people feel a sense of rejection from our statements.

NOW .. I do have to say saying you want a 'real lady' does make it sound like an older woman who dates younger guys is NOT? That is the only thing I would take arguement with. I consider myelf a woman of excellence, carry myself with class & good conduct & am as kind and caring as you can get (ask my kids/friends). But then I never say I am looking for a 'real' man. I've found plenty already.

Thirdly, about the term MILF. I take full responsibility for starting the YOUNGER MEN & MILFS thread. I kinda agree - MILF can sound degrading. But it was, IMHO, nicer than saying Older Women. You know we enjoy knowing we still 'have it' (which,,,btw, we do). We've turned 'sexy' into 'sensual' and are proud of it. Now I won't say all women in my age group handle themselves w/class becuz they don't. And I'm sorry about that. I can only answer for me.

You know my older son (along with my other 4 kids) used to have a problem w/me dating younger guys, right? Then one day he was talkin to his buddies and he asked them how THEY'D like it if it was their mom ... They said "We'd love knowin our mom had it "goin' on" ... after that he was more accepting of it. And said he was really glad I didn't weigh 300 #'s or be embarrassing to him in other ways. That I had class. So be it.

So that's about it from me. I hope you find what you want & you post a lot of good stuff on here.

And I think that it's great you put it out there how you want it back. Good luck to you hon

I was totally not your type anyhow, but your honest and that is a big plus to me. Handsome too.

Let the women get offended if they choose to. I get hate mail all the time.

I do too .. from older guys.

I like cougers LOL

I don't see how anyone could send you hate mail.

hey at least hes getting mail...

OLDER guys writing hate mail, are w/o class, sense of humour & could take a lot of blue pills.
As an older MAN, I have a sense of humour, would never write Fade hate mail & would hope she kept any mail we did share private.
Sometimes folks forget their sense of humour.
I would seldom call a LADY a MILF or COUGAR, just not me.

thanks kitten .. but ya. I've been sworn at too. UGLY UGLY stuff. Full of resentment. Saying it's not fair I won't date my own age. LOL

WTH. I don't owe men my age anything. Ridiculous.

And Sage is right ... they should not let their boxer/briefs get in a bunch. Heck, go date a woman who does want to. No reason to get at me.

i personally would take MILF as a compliment....however i would prefer something nicer

Age has nothing to do with being a MILF.
If you are a mother, your a MILF to someone.
To all the MILF's.