and why does someone who does it not respond?

Thats normal for mutual match

They were DRUNK when they LOOKED and PICKED.....

lol

The lurkers are cowardly

Maybe you should message them and ask for their hand in marriage.

thanks for the smartass comment but seriously why do people say yes to someone on that match thing then don't respond? its really stupid considering they said yes to me first -_-

My thoughts exactly!

Well you could always message them to find out why?

LMAO thank you right....if your going to put me as a mutual match just email me....or how about once we both have each other down as mutual match then actually contact me...So weird

I messaged them and they didn't respond. I'm not gonna beat a dead horse clearly she probably just hit yes by accident or is a jerk. All i said is hi how are you and I asked her something about what it said in her profile.. not like I did anything inappropriate.

I put alot of thought into anyone I might contact, don't like to waste either parties time

Yea.. or even worse you contact them and they ignore you for no reason.

Yeah, well you know what to do. Screw her, and move on to the next one.

They pick like its a little game, but most are to shy to take it to the first move of talking,lol really.
And the bold ones, wait a month to talk,lol
Just put more stock in the ones you talk to here on posts and become friends with them the rest just happens...

Totally agree. Still don't see the point of hitting yes and not even giving that person the time of day

I've written to 3 mutual matches with no response, so for now I'm stickin to the few who wrote me first.
Hi Ronda

It's a really intricate system, see person A says they are interested then person B (you) says they are interested as well, then person A says they are interested once again as well as person B (you), etc. etc. Wash, rinse, repeat as desired.

yea too bad no one is interested in me i have 1 match and that person isnt too interested

- Maybe they haven't been on in a long time.
- Maybe they got sick and tired of the BS that is online dating and aren't coming back.
- Maybe they got your letter but something you said pushed 'em away or made 'em think you weren't a match after all.
- Maybe they liked your picture and clicked yes then after reading your profile changed their mind.
- Maybe they don't have a clue what MM is and they just clicked yes on every profile that came along.
- Maybe they're really scared of online dating and aren't sure what to say in response to your letter.
- Maybe they think they're playing "hard to get" and are waiting for the second and third email before replying.
- Maybe something tragic happened in their life recently and they don't have time for the dating game now.
- Maybe you should give her a week or more then write her another polite friendly letter expressing your interest and asking nicely for a reply one way or another.

Maybe you shouldn't worry about what this one person says or does and move on with your life.