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How do you screen them? I met a guy last night that LOOKS like one, (Soooooo not my type) Harley clothes, tatoos, beard growing in, but he was a perfect gentleman. We slow danced & his hands didn't wander, held doors, walked me to my car , kissed me on the cheek, took my hand like he didn't want to let go, but kissed my cheek again, hugged me & left. Is this the game begining, or could he be a gentleman is disguise? ![]() Time like others have said will show the person. And YOU have to give HIM credit for actions already proven to YOU..A PERFECT GENTLEMAN...He's probably a stright-up dude.. Let us know how it tunes out?? And good luck..... ![]() [/quote I try not to judge by looks, I am just saying I am not usually attracted to this style. We all have preferences, as you & I well know.... |
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Edited by
zanne46
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Sun 03/16/08 11:32 AM
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hey gal,,,,,,,,,,,,hows things going hi Joe.. If talking to me... I am ok today.. had a rough few days..but better today...thank god... ![]() how are you..hope ur having a great day... ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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give it a chance and check him out, take your time. remember, if we buy a car, dont you test drive your favorites so to speak, and how much more important is a relationship, drive the first model you like and you may pay for something you dont really end up wanting., maybe not the best analogy, but think about it, good luck and best wishes
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just because we look like bad guy's we are not !
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hehehehe Zanne I type slow and I type with 3-4 fingers and have to look at the keys.... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Maybe he's that perfect mix... What is that perfect mix? I really didn't like the way he presented himself, although he is attractive, I was the most dressed up lady in the room & he was wearing a harley head scarf, definatey the roughest looking guy. But he treated me like I was a princess. Maybe he knew how to treat a ladie....... in order to get her in the sack ![]() This is what I am worried about. Its not hard to act like a gentleman in order to get what you want, your job is to determine if he's an actual gentle man |
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wanted a chicken dinner later? He knows nothing about "hen" Last night I was dressed sorta like like Carney Wilson. (I am a Fat n Sassy red head) |
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Edited by
harley46
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Sun 03/16/08 11:36 AM
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Tattoos dont make a person bad. And also bikers are probably some of the nicest people you will ever meet.
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hehehehe Zanne I type slow and I type with 3-4 fingers and have to look at the keys.... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Me to, I get left behind alot ![]() |
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Give him a second date and see what happen. That way you don't have to wander "What if."
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Maybe he's that perfect mix... What is that perfect mix? I really didn't like the way he presented himself, although he is attractive, I was the most dressed up lady in the room & he was wearing a harley head scarf, definatey the roughest looking guy. But he treated me like I was a princess. Maybe he knew how to treat a ladie....... in order to get her in the sack ![]() This is what I am worried about. Its not hard to act like a gentleman in order to get what you want, your job is to determine if he's an actual gentle man Exactly why I asked the question! ![]() |
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Tattoos dont make a person bad. And also bikers are probably some of the nicest people you will ever meet. ![]() I have always enjoyed chatting with bikers, but I am afraid of riding on a bike, 1st thing I told him after he showed me his tatoos & told me about his accident. |
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It sound's like to me j/m/o
You are looking to find out from us weather You should give him a chance or not do you really Know this Man or if not did you just judge. Him by One date take your time to get to know someone Whats the rush in your life for heck we all get hurt But if you don't put yourself out there you will Always find a excuse to find something wrong with someone That you did not even take the time to get to know for yourself Time does not hold you back it's Fear of being hurt That doe's and if you look for every thing that might be Wrong with someone without getting to know them at all That mean's you have not moved on from the fear in your life. |
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For seem reason the bikers seem to like me, & this one wasn't bothered by my weight at all.
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Tattoos dont make a person bad. And also bikers are probably some of the nicest people you will ever meet. ![]() I have always enjoyed chatting with bikers, but I am afraid of riding on a bike, 1st thing I told him after he showed me his tatoos & told me about his accident. |
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Thanks for all the nice responses I am not ignoring anyone, I just type slow & can't keep up.
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Interesting to see this topic today. I was talking with my brother last night(he is a producer and has had more women than I can count). We talked about the "bad boy" image and how so many women want that image, but to find a really nice guy inside. Could be that he is trying to attract with the image, but is a nice guy. Time will tell as has been said previously.
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Interesting to see this topic today. I was talking with my brother last night(he is a producer and has had more women than I can count). We talked about the "bad boy" image and how so many women want that image, but to find a really nice guy inside. Could be that he is trying to attract with the image, but is a nice guy. Time will tell as has been said previously. I have never been attracted by that "look". I actually like "geeky" guys but I wanted to dance & I was surprised at how sweet he was. The best part of my evening was actually watching him dance with his mother, who has her own bike & is planning a trip to Sturgis! |
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not all biker's are bad people ! i dance with my mother all the time ! well, she is the only one that can get me out on the floor ! lol
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Black Fox, yes you are right I am trying to decide if I should see him again. I know fron experience how hard it can be to try to fit into someone else's life style & his whole family is crazy about bikes. I don't want to fall for someone I think I may have such big differences with. His Mother was singing screaming the "F" word & I was cringing. She's amazing, so much energy & a great dancer, but I was raised so differently...
I really liked what you wrote in your profile. ![]() |
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