"When monogamy becomes monotony."

Wat u thinks of it.

You reap what you sow.

Who created the circumstances?

It's best to liven it up if you are with the one you truly love and enjoy being with.

both parties are responsible for keeping the home fires burning as well as watching for signs that they may need a bit of stirring here and there.

If your really in love it never gets old. But then again you need to put a lot into anything you want to keep alive.

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its customers a dating pool filled with people all looking for the same thing: a relationship outside of the one they are already in.

I've been married, and it was the worst experience of my life.

And the monotony was only the tip of the iceberg....

If its LOVE, and your BOTH open-minded and can freely talk with one another about trying new experiences with each other, from a trip, a weekend drive, a place to just see and feel together. To sexual ideas to throw at each other, something WILD and CRAZY, like river rafting, motorcycles for a weekend trip. ANYTHING that ALLOWS you to BOTH,,,,,"FEEL" each others HEARTS!!!!!!
If THIS is any help?

my crush just intesified

married man's centerfold magazine; has the same photo for years

I dunno, I have never experienced that...

I would suppose that should things become boring, then you have chosen the wrong life-partner...

I don't agree. Maybe you just need to vary the routine, like surprise your sweetie with something unexpectedly sensual, like a kiss on back of her neck while she's doing dishes...(they can wait til morning)

Nothing sparks the fires quicker than sitting at a restaurant and looking at your partner and saying "I want you now, I can't wait until we get home, what should we do????" This is a definite thriller.

Sponteneity breaks monotony.

Out of all of my failed relationships sexual boredom was not a cause.

Dragoness

That is an awesome way to share one's love...

If a simple kiss solves the problem, the you are far from being truly bored... And that is always a good measure... unexpected loving gestures... keeps it felt... IMO...

But...

I was thinking like the OP was addressing more serious contemplations of not having the desire, nor the physical attraction to find the desire to completely give yourself within a sexual encounter, for the benefit of your partner, rather than to the experience...

I do not think inside the normal box though... forgive me, if I have misunderstood something...

I think it is a sign of much more deeply seated issues...

I read Monotony as boredom of repetition, which could be part of a bigger problem or perhaps not. That has never been a problem in my relationships. I once wrapped myself in saran wrap, way back when 1 roll would do, now I can't afford that, I always come up with something!

Could be creative, falling out of love is a killer for the relationship. How people fall out of love with each other is not known. Sexual boredom is an easy one compared to this one.

Yeah, I suppose it means lots of different things to different people...

To me, that whole aspect of a relationship is completely contingient upon our own comfort level within the relationship, and all other aspects affect it accordingly.

Some versions concerning the notion of make-up sex have always confused me. When I hear others speak of it in terms of having had it without resolving the issues that led up to it...

I am more like...

'Why would I want to kiss the mouth that just got finished chewing my a** out?'

After a resolution is a completely different matter...

As I said... outside the box, I suppose...