Topic: y do women change their minds?
TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 01/03/07 12:02 PM
Ohhhh fivespeed there you are again with those eyes lmao.
Well been awhile since I have seen you here. All I can say
at 19 don't get that serious over any woman get out there and have fun.

And hate to admit it but Sluggo seems to be right see I have a 24 year
old son and a 22 year old daughter. According to my son what Sluggo says
is the way he does it too. When you really find the one for you things
will change a bit. Cause according to my daughtet now she has a
sweetheart of a B/f and they get along great she does not see things the
way my son does in relantionships but that is cause she has found the
one she wants to be with and the same for her b/f. My son is the playboy
but I have watched him and heck the ones he don't call or jump for they
are the ones that call him and chase him down its too funny but true. So
drop the one your with or treat her like she treats you a bed buddy.
Besides if she is still seeing her ex what makes you think it will ever
been anything but a booty call. :)

aleacim831's photo
Wed 01/03/07 12:03 PM
I'm sure you get the point move on lol Older women aren't always more
mature then you. :)

fivespeedrt's photo
Wed 01/03/07 12:03 PM
sluggo u do have a pt i didnt really think of it that way she did like
it that i was a sweet guy with a bad side

Nervesgone's photo
Wed 01/03/07 12:05 PM
alea, I know it! :( But I still see the same beauty as I did when I was
25!

fivespeedrt's photo
Wed 01/03/07 12:05 PM
i think i do get the pt i guess just be myself the odd thing is i keep
gettin older women attracted to me

Nervesgone's photo
Wed 01/03/07 12:06 PM
Ya know what they say, older women make better lovers!
LOL

aleacim831's photo
Wed 01/03/07 12:07 PM
Some women like younger men :)

aleacim831's photo
Wed 01/03/07 12:08 PM
They should say that about older men too lol

Nervesgone's photo
Wed 01/03/07 12:08 PM
Okay, older men make better lovers too!!

fivespeedrt's photo
Wed 01/03/07 12:11 PM
well she did like younger men i was the youngest. I hate how women can
go from luving how things are goin to bailing on u the next sec i guess
cause im not like that

aleacim831's photo
Wed 01/03/07 12:12 PM
Not all women are like that. Those of us who know what we want will tell
you right away if your it or not. At least I would.

Sluggo's photo
Wed 01/03/07 12:15 PM
5-Speed, as I mentioned earlier...when women get older they start to
switch their thinking and the thought of just going out with another
loser that treats them like S**t and can't afford to take them out just
doesn't appeal to them...So they start changin their mind set (You will
have your Revenge when you are about 35 yrs old and you start dating
younger woman..don't worry dude).

Older woman like you because you are "Train-able" and you keep coming
back for more (sounds like a good deal too from where I stand)...

Whatever you do, DON'T (I repeat, Do NOT) have a Kid with one of those
Train Wreck Woman that likes to be treated like S**T or you'll end up
paying her way for 18 years!! Wrap it up, no Excuses!!! Even if she says
she's on the Pill

fivespeedrt's photo
Wed 01/03/07 12:18 PM
dude ill take ur advice on that one. What makes it hard is she was a
very beutiful girl alot of people wondered how i got her

Sluggo's photo
Wed 01/03/07 12:18 PM
Opps...correction:

"sounds like a good deal to me from where I stand"

fivespeedrt's photo
Wed 01/03/07 12:21 PM
its ok dude i knew what u were tryin to say. and yeh in a sense she was
tryin to "train" me i guess u could say but didnt want to change who i
she was very dominating and demanding

Sluggo's photo
Wed 01/03/07 12:28 PM
5-Speed, Check your email's inbox.....

fivespeedrt's photo
Wed 01/03/07 12:33 PM
thanks everyone for there advice is there any advice on what to do about
not jumpin in to fast i have a habit of doin that somtimes

Sluggo's photo
Wed 01/03/07 12:38 PM
Be more selfish! Do what YOU want and make sure you get what YOU want
out of your relationships FIRST! That way if she's around a while down
the road you know that she's into you and what you like doing. If she's
not around then you at least got what you want in the short run ;-)

Tneal's photo
Wed 01/03/07 01:23 PM
Well I am an older woman (I have daughters older than you are *S*)
Talking for myself, I know what I want... and I plan on getting out
there to find it (soon as the divorce is final).

I believe that you need to take it slow. You have your whole life in
front of ya. Go have some fun, if you find a nice girl along the way
GREAT!! I would not worry about "THE REST OF YOUR LIFE" right now, you
have a long way to go.

And yes please, don't get any of those ladies preggy, you will not like
your life if you do.

Best of luck...
T

fivespeedrt's photo
Wed 01/03/07 01:27 PM
thank u for the advice u dont got to worry about that i certainly dont
want kids anytime soon