How long have you been with JSH? Do you have any good points to pass on to help someone else on here.

I've been here a year now, I guess the only advice i can give is keep bouncing around the forums and if you see someone you think you might like, send them a message to let them know that.

Just be patient..And be friendly i guess

dont get your hopes up...youll learn all the good ones are far away

I haven't been on that long, but in my experiance. Get out here and speak your mind, and if you see someone that peaks your interest, go get him.

I have been here Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm for quite some time...

Be patient,, dont look for love,, it truely will knock on your door so to speak,,, Believe in you,, Believe in Hope,,
Have fun,,, Enjoy,,,Life is an adventure enjoy the ride...

I have been here a couple of months and found some really great friends here.

Keep posting in the forums and let everyone know who u r.

About 6 weeks...use the resources such as mutual match and forums....dont post stupid crap and inflame people...

Even though some are FAR away....some are truly worth it. I think you have to be open to all possibilities.

To answer your question...I've been here about a year now. I hope you find what your searching for....

i've been here a year and 1/2 now...

im sure LaMom will agree, this site has gone thru more than a 'few' changes lol

keep your chin up, stay positive, post often, and don't run around with search dogs lookin for love....let it find you..cuz in the process of letting it find you, you'll make some great friendships

good luck in your finds

Absolutely... couldn't agree more. Don't wait for it to come to you, you go after it. However... don't expect things to go the way of love. If it is time and there is a connection, it will happen.

If you push, chances are you will be pushing away. Good luck to you.

btw... thanks for not using all caps anymore.

Yeppppppppp The lady is wise,,,

Hugs to you Beautiful

It helps a lot to set your profile to intimate encounter

now I get why the thread has to be read from the beginning

Step 1:
Drink a glass of wine before logging on.

Step 2:

Crack your knuckles and fingers so you are ready to type the words you mean to someone.

Step 3:

Drink another glass of wine. Make sure you have two bottles next to the computer.

Step 4:

Listen to music of your choice while you wait for a reply to your email. May take 5 minutes to a hour each time.

Step 5:

Drink another glass of wine while you are waiting

Step 6:

Say you are tired now and drunk. Will get back later. lol

Have fun on JSH! cheers

So thats what I have been doing wrong. I forgot the glasses.

I think all wisdom on this site can be boiled down to three simple words:


RUN LIKE HELL !!!