So I thought I would start this no cheater's union because yesterday my little girl comes home and says "mommy I have a sissy" and I didn't understand what she meant at first so I called her father and he tells me that this girl that he met while him and I were still dating and slept with has a 2 year old daughter that is his. His excuse was oh, it just happened, i was drunk. I am posting this because I am sick of all the cheaters and liars out there. If you don't love the person you are with anymore don't cheat on them, just end the relationship. It will be better for both of you in the long run because no one will have to live with the fact of getting cheated on and wondering what they did wrong. And if you do cheat and hopefully you will get caught, don't make excuses of why you did it, just admit you did and suffer with the results. And to all the good men and women out there you don't believe in cheating, all of you are awesome and nothing is wrong with any of you. Don't let what someone else did to you, stop you from moving on to a better person or relationship for that person might be your soulmate. Thanks to all of you for listening..Have a good day!!

Im inn!!!!!!!

I agree

I am with you all the way! My ex cheated on me and it is the most hurtful thing that anyone can do to you.

Hi!!!!,

cheers to you

I'm sorry you had to find out that way... and how confusing for your daughter. It would have been nice had he called you to tell you and you both could have figured out a good and positive way to tell her.

Aren't you glad he's someone else's problem now? There is always a positive. Just think... you could still be with him and find this out. TGIF.

I agree

sing me up too

I'm in! Unfaithfulness is the ultimate betrayal. There is no excuse for it, and the lies.

You go girl! that's my saying...if you aren't happy in the relationship..end it and move on... don't cheat!

<-- Card carrying member already.

I agree, I went through it and understand exactly where you are coming from.

DITTO

Yes I am definately glad he is not my problem anymore.

Amen to that, I was married to a serial cheater who loves to meet woman off the nasty hardcore adult personals, women who charge by the hour and hook up with them at the local Motel 8..I hope his shi* falls off..Karma is a bitc*

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count me in!!! ~ be a man/woman; if you have lost that loving feeling; a clean break is in order

agreed 100%

when my biological father told my mom to "come see his new house" she packed up us 3 kids, and went over there to meet his wife and other 3 kids...that was the end of them...


i have 1 older 1/2 brother, one 1/2 sister, and another younger 1/2 brother...as far as i know, that's the last i ever saw them...i've never met them when i was old enough to remember them..

there's always that wondering about them, who they are, what their names are...what if i met them outside my home? would we be friends? what did he tell his wife about us? what did he tell them about us?


so many questions, that might not ever be answered



end the relationship before you cheat..cheating is sooooo overrated

I've never been cheated on. I wouldn't like it to start either. I always told my other, that if they feel like they want someone else, just let me know and I will be happy to dump their arse.

so true.....