How many on JSH have helped out a family member, or friend when they were in need of a hand up? (If you have......post a wink if you would like.)

Ditto! Hey (((Gypsy)))

Many times, but striving for that balance where it isn't to my own detriment.

I'm still learning that a kind heart ruled by a wise head is important because you can't help anyone else unless you take care of you.

So, in general I lean towards a hand up rather than a hand out....empower not enable.