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How do you win over a guy who is enviromental, doesn't trust anyone anymore, and his mental shield is to be mean. He says that when he's mean to someone, it's cuz he likes her. I want to help him believe again, but I dont know how. Any tips?
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How do you win over a guy who is enviromental, doesn't trust anyone anymore, and his mental shield is to be mean. He says that when he's mean to someone, it's cuz he likes her. I want to help him believe again, but I dont know how. Any tips? |
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ditto
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you are in for heartbreak. You are not trained to deal with it, and it will only serve to spiral you into a one sided, miserable relationship
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Edited by
Kg1
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Wed 03/12/08 11:48 PM
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You can never change a guy thats womens most comon mistake, he can only change himself... you can't take on someone elses baggage... if you let him treat you like **** from the start he will think he can always treat you like **** and always will... so if he's mean now he always will be
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You can never change a guy thats womens most comon mistake, he can only change himself... *most* men get with women hoping they will never change *most* women get with men for what they think they can change them into *popcorn smilie* |
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Edited by
davidben1
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Wed 03/12/08 11:49 PM
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nothing can be mean less they blame others for there own past, in a relationship
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nothing can be mean less they blame others for there own past, in a relationship 
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Run!!!!!
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you are in for heartbreak. You are not trained to deal with it, and it will only serve to spiral you into a one sided, miserable relationship i totally agree with rob here. Trust is a very hard thing to earn...either the person has it or they don't and you cannot change that |
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I understand what you are all saying, and I agree, I really do, but just to let you know, I'm not trying to change him, not at all. He doesn't want to be the way he is, but right now, his mind is set on the fact that he has been cheated on in the past, and doesn't trust. I have been cheated on by every one of my boyfriends, but I still learn to trust. I just want to help him. He knows I'm there for him, but is there something in particular I can do?
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Run!!!!!
who is that gorgeous one? 
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wow is this deja vu????
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Run!!!!!
who is that gorgeous one?
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I understand what you are all saying, and I agree, I really do, but just to let you know, I'm not trying to change him, not at all. He doesn't want to be the way he is, but right now, his mind is set on the fact that he has been cheated on in the past, and doesn't trust. I have been cheated on by every one of my boyfriends, but I still learn to trust. I just want to help him. He knows I'm there for him, but is there something in particular I can do? I am telling you girlie, if he hasn't moved on he is in no way ready to start a relationship. You will be in for some bad times, and so will he. The road to happiness is first forgiving things in your past, and accepting things for what they are. If there is no trust to start with, there never will be |
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Run!!!!!
who is that gorgeous one?
oh, my name is robert. Nice to meet you |
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Run!!!!!
who is that gorgeous one?
oh, my name is robert. Nice to meet you lol |
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Run!!!!!
who is that gorgeous one?
oh, my name is robert. Nice to meet you lol 
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Run!!!!!
who is that gorgeous one?
oh, my name is robert. Nice to meet you did someone call me scotty
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Well, we decided that when we meet, we are going to see if we click as well as we do on the phone. If so, then we are going to work things out. But I just want to prove to him that he can trust me. Is there anything special that all guys wish a woman would do when they first meet?
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