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I met someone last night and it was great! There was a instant
connection and he called me wanting to take me out for coffee today also. I am still married even though I left my husband 2 years ago. For some reason I am having a hard time loosening up around this person. Does this mean I am not ready? I take things as they come and I have no expectations and I am in NOOOOOOOOOOOO rush to get into a relationship but it is unnearving when you feel you just cant let go. Does this make sence? |
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This means you are normal. Scares the crap out of me too.
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Makes sence to me you'll know when to let go just trust you feelings and
instinks. Good Luck Shanga |
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My feelings are all over, thats my problem, I am like just enjoy it and
things will happen as may then the other part of me is like blow him off and move on. |
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Well girl until you finally get a divorce and let go of him first hate
to say it but you will never let yourself go completly. So you need to take care of the divorce first could it be your hoping that ya'll could still get back together just my thoughts girl there has to be a reason you have not let him go yet are you still in love with your ex maybe? |
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Could possibly mean you are not ready.. Have you had your final
resolutions with you ex. If you have not had that final closeure with your ex you may still have somethings that you have left open or unanswered with him especially since you are still married. Just take your time you will know when it is right to get involved... Just do not do anything you do not feel comfortable with, and one good thing that could happen you could have found a reall great new friend. You never know. |
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I agree with TEXGAL I held on to my ex for 2 years even though I hadent
seen her I feeled there was no closure and still wondered if we would ever get back togather I held on to that so much I let alot of good ones get away. Well about a month ago I let her come back a I got my closure we didnt even know each other anymore but I needed that closure to move on. This semester at the college will definatly be diferent.lol Good luck |
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Absolutely 100% agree with Alpine and TXS...
You have to have closure to the past before you can move on... Don't kid yourself, you'll only be hurt and the ones you are with will be hurt too... |
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OH shag ,,,that makes ALOT of sense ...I am really shy ((((believe it or
not!))))!!! but I absolutly PANIC!!!!!! when I have to talk to some one in real life!!!!ITS OK!!!!!!TOTALLY natural reaction!!!!..ooooooo !!! I am happy for you!!! |
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we build up barriers around are heart so we won't let anyone hurt us
again, human reaction. glad to see there are shy ladies also, how do you get over that? |
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just go with your feelings, if you feel it is not right then pull back
untill you are ready to go out with anybody! you know on my case my ex divorse me because we argue allot. I can still feel something for her even after 4 years when i see her from afar.thats why i can't go out either. who knows if she feels the same. |
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YOU FIRST, have to want to let GO, THEN you are a little scared and
maybe one of two things, worried that HE will not like YOU.. Or have not FULLY let go of your ex??? So then just WORRIED that HE (the new) will attach him self to you and YOUR not really ready yet for that!!! |
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Weather or not I have let go of my husband doesnt matter as it is over
and I would never go back to him, He is now a drug addict and I will not deal with that at all. Do I still love my husband? YES will I ever resolve the feeling I had for him, I dont know. I waited 2 years to start dating and now that I am it isnt as fun as I thought it would be. It was nice but it is to complicating. |
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Ever consider that since the time you and your husband broke up that you
have matured and grown into a independant woman with your own power? When we do that, we like to have some male companionship, but it isn't necessary. There may be some red flags with this guy, but you'll find one that you'll feel comfortable with. |
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