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is it negative to speak an observation?
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no i dont think so
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Edited by
PragmaticMind
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Wed 03/12/08 11:32 AM
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is it negative to speak an observation? It depends how you state your observation and to whom you're speaking to and of. Everyone can easily interpret an observation (opinion) differently.. it could be taken well or make one defensive/offended. |
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I thought there was just writing in here.
But if you mean stating an opinion, nope. Nothing wrong with it. As long as it is consise and direct, so that the readers can understand the point being made. As I always say, write for the readers and not for yourself. 
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What are you trying to tell me?
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It all depends how you presnt it.... as a means for change or just being blunt and kind of jerkish?
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is it negative to speak an observation? Hey Richard GEar! |
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perhaps a scary topic, which would lend to the fact the humans make many decisions based on fear of conflict.
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What are you trying to tell me? Your picture made me smile! You are both adorable! |
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well, many wrote while writing second post, lol.....as in if one spot something as negative, in the mind, that this is the place all things are seen as negative or positive, and why it say to please all is to please none, and eventually not speaking disconnect people from really being connected to each other as the same, and havinf common ground.
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is it negative to speak an observation? Hey Richard GEar! whats up great smile one |
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huh?
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huh? 
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It all depends how you presnt it.... as a means for change or just being blunt and kind of jerkish? well, if the mind convince us at first the thought is negative, we cannot see the usefulness to make change, and discard it as negative, so many changes that could be never happen. |
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do we create our own thoughts? any takers
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David, no malice between us so I gotta ask, you smokin' weed or droppin' acid?
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huh?
it is where Dr. Phil is into....changing thoughts, to change behavior.....but what if they are not bad to start, and we only DECIDE with each one if they are..... |
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We create our own thoughts, in response to external stimulation.
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is it negative to speak an observation? It depends how you state your observation and to whom you're speaking to and of. Everyone can easily interpret an observation (opinion) differently.. it could be taken well or make one defensive/offended. yes indeed, and this offense or defensive position would be difused if thoughts were not seen as bad nor good, just building blocks to the the truth...... |
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David, no malice between us so I gotta ask, you smokin' weed or droppin' acid? BIG SMILES.....I KNOW IT SEEMS BUT NO.....and if you said did i would not think bad but makes me smile.....just thoughts |
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