Perfect'd be spiritual, intelligent, giving, share my taste in music, share my faith, low maintenance, able to drive and/or tolorate my driving, not jealous, decent housekeeper, not a pack rat, able to discard anything she hasn't used or worn in the last six months or a year, not addicted to garage saling, not overly thrifty, but avoids debt and use of credit cards, not a cell phone and text addict, prefers kissing and hugging, doesn't believe in extramarital/premarital sex, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink, not more than 20-30 pounds overweight (105-160's about the best weight, I believe, depending on height and body type. A six footer could tolerate more, of course). likes moderate levels of exercise to include walks, treadmill runs, low impact aerobics/pilates/yoga, etc., agreeable, reasonable, tolerant, returns phone calls within a couple of hours or a day or two at most, returns e-mails and letters the same. Hair color, insignificant. Lives close or is willing to meet me somewhere close or move close to me. Courteous enough to tell someone why they're blowing them off or dumping them, if the occasion presents itself. respectful, initiates affection about three or four times a day/a meeting/date, will not refuse affection except by mutual agreement with me, thinks a man should be a spiritual leader, will not make me guess what she is thinking, likes me to write her love letters, likes my companionship, likes my jokes, likes me for a shoulder to cry/lean on and a partner, does not leave trash laying around, volunteers to help/will split work with me, not demanding, not strident, is employed. That's pretty much it. Hair color's unimportant. Dress is probably moderate but will wear pants, shorts, t-shirts and bathing suits. Would not be shy once married. Willing to help with cooking. Doesn't like to buy extravagant amounts of food, clothing or other items. Agrees with my spending tastes on clothing, cars, etc. Able to do baxic car stuff: change a tire, check oil, check fluids, fuel up, care for car, etc. (although that's not 100% essential). Not a hypochondriac. In reasonably good health. Able to walk, swim and bike at moderate durations and intensities. Willing to contribute a couple hundred bucks a month toward household bills. Willing to chip in as she's able toward household maintenance and repairs. Helps keep the house clean. Helps do the laundry. Not overly picky about household cleanliness, but not slovenly, either. Does not keep animals of any type inside the house. Msy have one cat around the outside of the house and maybe a dog. Balances her attention between her children, her family and her spouse/boyfriend. Has good relations with her family and my family and friends. Has friends that approve of me or tolerate me well. Will respond when I talk to her. Smiles a lot. Reasonably decent looking. From 30 years younger to 20 years older than I am, but preferably within about 10 years of my age or closer. Not obsessed about anything. Can tolerate motorcycle riding. Knows how to use a computer. Thinks she needs me for companionship, etc.

I'm not all that picky toward those that I date. I'd date just about anybody. But, the lady I'd like to find for marriage would have many of the characteristics above, hopefully. That's my dream, anyway. Any applicants out there? Characters welcome.

I need a lover who does not want to get to serous.

I need a love who wants to take things seriously,
I don't want to just play around, like
I would like to settle down, but with someone who really care
and love me...for me,,for who I am,,,