i don't consider simple to be anything more than the greatest of wisdom, so how can one be to simple.....respect is earned so to respect before one has proven they are worthy of respect, can lead to bad, as anything one respect they become without effort......you are awesome in eyes.

so folks please tell me

would you not live with your BF or GF is they had health problems and cant work at the moment??

i don't date sick people

well remember when you get sick, that no one will date you ill even laugh in your face

just don't get any germs on me when you're laughi ng in my face

Which is why I agree to disagree, I respect everyone, now trust is earned not respect. I live my life by treating others the same way I want to be treated, hence I respect all.

its impossible to give you any germs, i havnt got a sickness bug. DUH

I love your thought provoking conversation.....smiles....you force me to think for myself, and i like that.......whether it be trust or respect which come first, should not ALL things be earned....if they are not then many untruths could rule nations, and this would cause much despair.....would not the same hold true in relationships, as everything in the world we know is based on the same principles.......if i trust my daughter with my car before i respect her abilities, i shall be led by blind love, and cause her to harm herself, and then i shall cry and weep the tears. Of course i shall be tempted to say yes, as i wish her to love me also, but if i really love her i will see what is BEST for her.

Oh no.... not unless they had a way to support themselves... I support a 6 year old... not a 25-35 year old...

Good morning

If he lost his job thru no fault of his own, maybe for a while I will put up with it (know it wont be for long).

If he lost his job thru his actions or lack thereof I doubt I would be understanding.

Because in a relationship we work "together" to get ahead, NO ONE will be sitting on their behind while the other works/struggles (in my opinion).

Hell if it works for you, fine, but it doesnt for me.

For me I would date someone for no less than a year anyway, and in that time, you can see the character that they have.

Do they blame others for their misfortune?

Is nothing ever their fault?

Do they have an inflated sense of entitlement?

Those are 3 huge things that I can sniff a rat out with....

So ya, I agree, things happen due to no fault of their own, but what they do to make things better speaks more for them...

well ive done that,i was the only one working,waita minute im always the only one working

sounds like it's time for a re-evaluation in your life then...

shhhh - dont say that too loudly
some women like to stay home and not work
not me

You know that says a lot about a person that is able to work and doesn't work. I would have to say NO, unless they are independently wealthy, then HELL YES! =)