Topic: are you allowed..................
scttrbrain's photo
Mon 03/10/08 06:58 PM
My space is the most dangerous, private or not. People hack into them all the time. It happened to a friend of mine. We all had to change everything. He got to all her friends. Then posted all kinds of stuff.

Kat

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Mon 03/10/08 07:00 PM

is there a mod who can tell us, if its against the rules to post pictures of children??


From the help page:

Q. What are the rules for photo content in your profile?

A. Photos must not contain any nudity or offensive content. Users with offending photos will have their profile deleted immediately and will be banned from the site. Photos may also not contain any copyrighted material.

I have seen a lot of people post pictures of their kids, grandkids, etc. There have been a few threads about whether or not it's appropriate, or a good idea, but as far as I know, there's no actual rule prohibiting it.


Lily0923's photo
Mon 03/10/08 07:00 PM



I put my granson on here. No one is going to find him at my house.
Without a shotgun in their nose.
Kat


but to me, just the thought that someone might look at him that way is sickening, thats why i wont put a picture of my neice on here.


What would cause you to have such a thought anyway? (Anyway, this is a dating site, there is no reason to post family pictures.) If you have a friend you want to share pictures with it is easy enough to send them. This site is working on adding the ability to send pics with a message.

You worry too much. Besides, there is enough porn on the Internet to satisfy the sickest of people, so you should not fret over such things.


Do you have kids???

no photo
Mon 03/10/08 07:02 PM




I put my granson on here. No one is going to find him at my house.
Without a shotgun in their nose.
Kat


but to me, just the thought that someone might look at him that way is sickening, thats why i wont put a picture of my neice on here.


What would cause you to have such a thought anyway? (Anyway, this is a dating site, there is no reason to post family pictures.) If you have a friend you want to share pictures with it is easy enough to send them. This site is working on adding the ability to send pics with a message.

You worry too much. Besides, there is enough porn on the Internet to satisfy the sickest of people, so you should not fret over such things.



It is worth every bit of fret

Sicko's are everywhere.....regardless. Easiest solution is to not give them any source at all


i couldnt have put it any better myself

Jim519's photo
Mon 03/10/08 07:03 PM

My space is the most dangerous, private or not. People hack into them all the time. It happened to a friend of mine. We all had to change everything. He got to all her friends. Then posted all kinds of stuff.

Kat



Exactly why I havent redone my myspace

Although they have pretty much fixed and stay on top of the hacking now....

If someone wants in though, no matter how bad..they will get it

Thats why the easiest solution is to get rid of all source

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 03/10/08 07:03 PM
flowerforyou Unless they are cartoons, I dont think you should be allowed to post pics with children or anybody else for that matter. flowerforyou I dont understand the pics that have more than one person in them either.flowerforyou

Jim519's photo
Mon 03/10/08 07:05 PM
Edited by Jim519 on Mon 03/10/08 07:06 PM

flowerforyou Unless they are cartoons, I dont think you should be allowed to post pics with children or anybody else for that matter. flowerforyou I dont understand the pics that have more than one person in them either.flowerforyou



I agree drinker

I do have just one pic of me and someone else,but you can tell who I am..

I did that just to show that I do have a friend laugh

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Mon 03/10/08 07:06 PM




I put my granson on here. No one is going to find him at my house.
Without a shotgun in their nose.
Kat


but to me, just the thought that someone might look at him that way is sickening, thats why i wont put a picture of my neice on here.


What would cause you to have such a thought anyway? (Anyway, this is a dating site, there is no reason to post family pictures.) If you have a friend you want to share pictures with it is easy enough to send them. This site is working on adding the ability to send pics with a message.

You worry too much. Besides, there is enough porn on the Internet to satisfy the sickest of people, so you should not fret over such things.


Do you have kids???


i dont think she has, any decent mother would do everything to keep there child safe, like you are lils. she cant be a mother saying those things, or if she is a mother, im shocked

lulu24's photo
Mon 03/10/08 07:07 PM
we've discussed this before with mike...as of now, it's permissible to post pics of your children.

i have mine in my profile, and i'm quite proud of my little darlings. it's no more dangerous than people seeing them on the street, and i refuse to cover their heads in public.

Lily0923's photo
Mon 03/10/08 07:08 PM





I put my granson on here. No one is going to find him at my house.
Without a shotgun in their nose.
Kat


but to me, just the thought that someone might look at him that way is sickening, thats why i wont put a picture of my neice on here.


What would cause you to have such a thought anyway? (Anyway, this is a dating site, there is no reason to post family pictures.) If you have a friend you want to share pictures with it is easy enough to send them. This site is working on adding the ability to send pics with a message.

You worry too much. Besides, there is enough porn on the Internet to satisfy the sickest of people, so you should not fret over such things.


Do you have kids???


i dont think she has, any decent mother would do everything to keep there child safe, like you are lils. she cant be a mother saying those things, or if she is a mother, im shocked


Well I don't want to go making judgement calls on someone based on their decision to post pics or not, I was just trying to say, that a mother would know what the fret was about....

no photo
Mon 03/10/08 07:08 PM




I put my granson on here. No one is going to find him at my house.
Without a shotgun in their nose.
Kat


but to me, just the thought that someone might look at him that way is sickening, thats why i wont put a picture of my neice on here.


What would cause you to have such a thought anyway? (Anyway, this is a dating site, there is no reason to post family pictures.) If you have a friend you want to share pictures with it is easy enough to send them. This site is working on adding the ability to send pics with a message.

You worry too much. Besides, there is enough porn on the Internet to satisfy the sickest of people, so you should not fret over such things.


Do you have kids???



Worry is worry. It is a negative affirmation. If you think for one second posting a picture of your child on this site or any other is dangerous then just don't do it. Its that simple.

To dwell on such thoughts and even post them, is writing and visualizing a negative affirmation. ..and more worry.

You can argue that worry is "normal" but it is not. It is common. You take caution and preventative measures if you are worried and then forget about it, that is all I am saying.

Worry will cause you to stress and grow old fast.


adj4u's photo
Mon 03/10/08 07:09 PM

we've discussed this before with mike...as of now, it's permissible to post pics of your children.

i have mine in my profile, and i'm quite proud of my little darlings. it's no more dangerous than people seeing them on the street, and i refuse to cover their heads in public.


yes but you hide them in the closet when need be

drinker drinker

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Lily0923's photo
Mon 03/10/08 07:10 PM

we've discussed this before with mike...as of now, it's permissible to post pics of your children.

i have mine in my profile, and i'm quite proud of my little darlings. it's no more dangerous than people seeing them on the street, and i refuse to cover their heads in public.


So your children were not fathered by Michael Jackson?? laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh get it covering their head in public... never mind I'm tired...

lulu24's photo
Mon 03/10/08 07:11 PM

So your children were not fathered by Michael Jackson?? laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh get it covering their head in public... never mind I'm tired...


i must be tired, too...cause i laughed my rear off on that one.

robin, they only go in the closet when you bring me pizza, remember?

adj4u's photo
Mon 03/10/08 07:12 PM
i think the more important question is


why do some have the feeling that
what they feel should be mandated to others

we are all adults capable (hopefully)
to make our own decisions

Lily0923's photo
Mon 03/10/08 07:13 PM





I put my granson on here. No one is going to find him at my house.
Without a shotgun in their nose.
Kat


but to me, just the thought that someone might look at him that way is sickening, thats why i wont put a picture of my neice on here.


What would cause you to have such a thought anyway? (Anyway, this is a dating site, there is no reason to post family pictures.) If you have a friend you want to share pictures with it is easy enough to send them. This site is working on adding the ability to send pics with a message.

You worry too much. Besides, there is enough porn on the Internet to satisfy the sickest of people, so you should not fret over such things.


Do you have kids???



Worry is worry. It is a negative affirmation. If you think for one second posting a picture of your child on this site or any other is dangerous then just don't do it. Its that simple.

To dwell on such thoughts and even post them, is writing and visualizing a negative affirmation. ..and more worry.

You can argue that worry is "normal" but it is not. It is common. You take caution and preventative measures if you are worried and then forget about it, that is all I am saying.

Worry will cause you to stress and grow old fast.




I know now that you do not have children, as a mother, I worry CONSTANTLY about her health and well being... There is hardly a second in the day or night, i don't think about something that has to do with her proper upbringing.... schooling, safety, nutrition, health, proper advancement in learning, saving for her college, making sure she is taught proper morals and values... Do I worry....ALL THE TIME..... That was the roll I took as a mother...

no photo
Mon 03/10/08 07:16 PM






I put my granson on here. No one is going to find him at my house.
Without a shotgun in their nose.
Kat


but to me, just the thought that someone might look at him that way is sickening, thats why i wont put a picture of my neice on here.


What would cause you to have such a thought anyway? (Anyway, this is a dating site, there is no reason to post family pictures.) If you have a friend you want to share pictures with it is easy enough to send them. This site is working on adding the ability to send pics with a message.

You worry too much. Besides, there is enough porn on the Internet to satisfy the sickest of people, so you should not fret over such things.


Do you have kids???


i dont think she has, any decent mother would do everything to keep there child safe, like you are lils. she cant be a mother saying those things, or if she is a mother, im shocked


Well I don't want to go making judgement calls on someone based on their decision to post pics or not, I was just trying to say, that a mother would know what the fret was about....


i fret about it with my neice, if i was mother id fret even more. im saying that and im not a mother

Jim519's photo
Mon 03/10/08 07:16 PM
drinker drinker drinker






I put my granson on here. No one is going to find him at my house.
Without a shotgun in their nose.
Kat


but to me, just the thought that someone might look at him that way is sickening, thats why i wont put a picture of my neice on here.


What would cause you to have such a thought anyway? (Anyway, this is a dating site, there is no reason to post family pictures.) If you have a friend you want to share pictures with it is easy enough to send them. This site is working on adding the ability to send pics with a message.

You worry too much. Besides, there is enough porn on the Internet to satisfy the sickest of people, so you should not fret over such things.


Do you have kids???



Worry is worry. It is a negative affirmation. If you think for one second posting a picture of your child on this site or any other is dangerous then just don't do it. Its that simple.

To dwell on such thoughts and even post them, is writing and visualizing a negative affirmation. ..and more worry.

You can argue that worry is "normal" but it is not. It is common. You take caution and preventative measures if you are worried and then forget about it, that is all I am saying.

Worry will cause you to stress and grow old fast.




I know now that you do not have children, as a mother, I worry CONSTANTLY about her health and well being... There is hardly a second in the day or night, i don't think about something that has to do with her proper upbringing.... schooling, safety, nutrition, health, proper advancement in learning, saving for her college, making sure she is taught proper morals and values... Do I worry....ALL THE TIME..... That was the roll I took as a mother...

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Mon 03/10/08 07:17 PM





I put my granson on here. No one is going to find him at my house.
Without a shotgun in their nose.
Kat


but to me, just the thought that someone might look at him that way is sickening, thats why i wont put a picture of my neice on here.


What would cause you to have such a thought anyway? (Anyway, this is a dating site, there is no reason to post family pictures.) If you have a friend you want to share pictures with it is easy enough to send them. This site is working on adding the ability to send pics with a message.

You worry too much. Besides, there is enough porn on the Internet to satisfy the sickest of people, so you should not fret over such things.


Do you have kids???



Worry is worry. It is a negative affirmation. If you think for one second posting a picture of your child on this site or any other is dangerous then just don't do it. Its that simple.

To dwell on such thoughts and even post them, is writing and visualizing a negative affirmation. ..and more worry.

You can argue that worry is "normal" but it is not. It is common. You take caution and preventative measures if you are worried and then forget about it, that is all I am saying.

Worry will cause you to stress and grow old fast.




i DONT think lili is being negative. shes just looking out for the safety of her children. we need more people in this world like lils.flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Mon 03/10/08 07:20 PM






I put my granson on here. No one is going to find him at my house.
Without a shotgun in their nose.
Kat


but to me, just the thought that someone might look at him that way is sickening, thats why i wont put a picture of my neice on here.


What would cause you to have such a thought anyway? (Anyway, this is a dating site, there is no reason to post family pictures.) If you have a friend you want to share pictures with it is easy enough to send them. This site is working on adding the ability to send pics with a message.

You worry too much. Besides, there is enough porn on the Internet to satisfy the sickest of people, so you should not fret over such things.


Do you have kids???



Worry is worry. It is a negative affirmation. If you think for one second posting a picture of your child on this site or any other is dangerous then just don't do it. Its that simple.

To dwell on such thoughts and even post them, is writing and visualizing a negative affirmation. ..and more worry.

You can argue that worry is "normal" but it is not. It is common. You take caution and preventative measures if you are worried and then forget about it, that is all I am saying.

Worry will cause you to stress and grow old fast.




I know now that you do not have children, as a mother, I worry CONSTANTLY about her health and well being... There is hardly a second in the day or night, i don't think about something that has to do with her proper upbringing.... schooling, safety, nutrition, health, proper advancement in learning, saving for her college, making sure she is taught proper morals and values... Do I worry....ALL THE TIME..... That was the roll I took as a mother...



lils your a great mother, i wish ALL mothers were like you. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou