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Topic: pratice dates
itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Sun 03/09/08 01:58 PM
I think this good idea for people that feel uncomfortable because of either lack of experience or maybe just want to know why they are failing at getting 2nd dates.I think it would be good thing if it there wasnt any expection of relationship out of the date and maybe at end some sort of conversation on what you think the other might be doing wrong without hurting others feelings.what do yall think of this idea? It wouldnt be based on looks or age

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sun 03/09/08 01:59 PM
I like jumping in and hoping I can swim, but for some this is a good choice to make. Practice what you want, enough practice and you become a master

tombraider Joined Wed 09/12/07 Posts: 5042	Sun 03/09/08 02:02 PM
does the practice date come with practice sex....

vegasgirl2007 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3748	Sun 03/09/08 02:03 PM
I think this good idea for people that feel uncomfortable because of either lack of experience or maybe just want to know why they are failing at getting 2nd dates.I think it would be good thing if it there wasnt any expection of relationship out of the date and maybe at end some sort of conversation on what you think the other might be doing wrong without hurting others feelings.what do yall think of this idea? It wouldnt be based on looks or age i agree

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 03/09/08 02:05 PM
My first dates dont survive to become 2nd dates

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Sun 03/09/08 02:05 PM
I think the problem lies more with people expecting too much from a date. You can even see this in some JSH members' profiles- they'll put down "looking for marriage" or something similar as their overall goal while on the site. While it is admirable to have your goals set from the start, the problem here is that dating is one of those things you simply can't predict in terms of result. You may end up with the person of your dreams, a "friend with benefits", or the both of you might just hate each others' guts. You simply can't expect something, as you'll only set yourself up for disappointment. But yeah- practice dates would work in certain cases, though.

boneyjoe Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 6196	Sun 03/09/08 02:05 PM
based on age an looks,,,,,thanx a lot,,,,,,that leaves me out in th rain

sexxyandsingle Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 3283	Sun 03/09/08 02:05 PM
does the practice date come with practice sex....

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Sun 03/09/08 02:06 PM
profound. i like.

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Sun 03/09/08 02:07 PM
Sounds like a good idea

vegasgirl2007 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3748	Sun 03/09/08 02:07 PM
My first dates dont survive to become 2nd dates

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Sun 03/09/08 02:08 PM
do you have to "let people down lightly?" sometimes? i hate doing that, it's not easy at all.

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Sun 03/09/08 02:10 PM
i'm myself hope to marry but no expection of a date simply put my hope of marraige out there to let people know i'm seious and to warn any man in case he is against marrying.a date is just getting to know a person and maybe having a bit of fun or just making a new friend I think the problem lies more with people expecting too much from a date. You can even see this in some JSH members' profiles- they'll put down "looking for marriage" or something similar as their overall goal while on the site. While it is admirable to have your goals set from the start, the problem here is that dating is one of those things you simply can't predict in terms of result. You may end up with the person of your dreams, a "friend with benefits", or the both of you might just hate each others' guts. You simply can't expect something, as you'll only set yourself up for disappointment. But yeah- practice dates would work in certain cases, though.

vegasgirl2007 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3748	Sun 03/09/08 02:10 PM
do you have to "let people down lightly?" sometimes? i hate doing that, it's not easy at all.

evilolive Joined Sun 05/27/07 Posts: 772	Sun 03/09/08 02:10 PM
does the practice date come with practice sex.... hmmm...

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Sun 03/09/08 02:12 PM
do you have to "let people down lightly?" sometimes? i hate doing that, it's not easy at all. no would just be pratice no letting down needed

sexxyandsingle Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 3283	Sun 03/09/08 02:12 PM
I would love to go on a pratice date with the girl of my dreams

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Sun 03/09/08 02:13 PM
I hate first dates. What is especially hard is that the more I'm interested and attracted to a person, the more awkward and uncomfortable I feel. The less attracted and the more I feel like this is a just friends person, the more relaxed I am and less self conscious. So I think I end up sending confused signals to people.

shutterbug63 Joined Thu 04/26/07 Posts: 1219	Sun 03/09/08 02:19 PM
Well I am planning to meet someone that I met on JSH soon. On the one hand, she wants to meet first before she decides anything, so I am not to go there expecting anything. On the other hand, if I don't go and meet her, I won't ever have a chance with her, and I can't live with that. She definitely wants to see me when I come to town. She's been hurt, and her life is kinda complicated right now (as mine is) but I care a lot for her. So I think that practice dates can provide a possibility that otherwise wouldn't be there.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sun 03/09/08 02:36 PM
does the practice date come with practice sex.... I think people would take to the idea now!!!!