Theres this kid i know. and i thought he was cute so i told him. cuz thats what i do, i speak my mind... he works with my best friend. and i know he's got a girlfriend and a kid. i'm not trying to split them up or anything. i just said what i thought. well now everynight after he gets out of work i get a txt from my best friend telling me to call him, and i have to call him cuz he doesnt save my number, cuz the last time i txted him he got in trouble with his girl..

Now i'm not trying to start anything with him cuz i respect the fact that he's taken and i'm not twisted like that..but i think my best friend is trying to get us together, cuz she keeps talking about me to him and saying things..what she says is true. the one thing i found out last night on the phone with him is that my bestie said that by august, i would be with him. and i dont see it...i'm not trying anything. cuz i wouldnt want to break anything up...and he told me that if he ever breaks up with his girl he would seriously talk to me and take me out and stuff..and he's trying to hook me up with a friend of his...i dont know what to do about it cuz its confusing me.

I feel dirty and sneaky calling him on his way home from work and talking to him for like an hour and knowing that he's taken
it feels werid to me but he's a nice guy..cuz it kinda feels like i'm helping him cheat or something..although we dont do anything but talk...

affairs of the heart

brenda stop the madness!!

RUN! if anything ever did develop with you, he'd do the same thing to you that he is doing to her. How would you feel if you were in her shoes?

Jesus girl. Forget about him. Dont be a homewrecker. Tell your friend to quit bothering you about it. Dont be that girl.

Your both wrong...I dont feel you respected his relationship by sharing a flirtatious gesture...

Flat out wrong....

lets start posting the short stories not the novels

kitten

Agree!!!

I think you just answered your own question....

Now, if you'll excuse me, I have an algebra test....

OMG, homewrecker!!

I can tell you from experience, you really should stop what you're doing and walk away from it all now. Especially, since there really aren't any feelings involved. It's painful sweetie, I couldn't stress it to you enough how difficult and heartwrenching it truly is.
Unfortunately, for me; a friend of mine (a friend), that I unexpectedly and unintentionally grew to adore and love.. he's married and believe me; I do nothing but beat myself up within and pray to God that he will forgive my sinful thoughts and emotions toward him. I too have much respect for others relationships (no matter how attractive he may be or how kind his personality is). It's wrong and certainly something I never in a million years thought I would experience. Not to mention, I have totally disrespected not only his relationship with his wife, but myself and my morals/beliefs. This is still an ongoing thing for us. We were friends and now we're exchanging loving thoughts toward one another on a daily basis.

Anyhow.. stop it while you're ahead honey.. the emotional heartache isn't worth it

There's other fish in the sea, you know? If you can find folks without other strings attached, you're probably better off. Less stress. More happy.

yeah he's doing that with her , maybe you'll get lucky and take her spot so he can do that to you !

Cheers to that!!!!!

I think you know what you are doing is very wrong!! You need to walk away from this guy, he already has a girlfriend. If he did this to her, hes going to do the same thing to you! The thing is, basically you are the other woman! Do you really want to be considered that?
Stop calling him, obviously he is not saving your number because his girlfriend will be upset!! You really need to walk away from this situation, its not going to end up with a happy ending!!
I just think you need to walk away and walk away really fast. He is a player and you my friend are what they call a homewrecker! A homewrecker is not a good name to have, so run fast!!

agree!!

Well said bro.....

Where did she go?