hmmmm...
someone to give you their checkbook
someone to take out the garbage
someone to change your oil
and yeahhhh...sex is good sometimes!

Good or bad you will always have someone behind you!!

The question? Pretty easy.

The answer? In concept, still easy.. In practice? Not so easy.


First and always foremost.
I love her.

How I got there, how it started?
This is the easy part. Kinda like falling down (If you know me, you know how significant this is)
She is very attractive. Oddly, she was attracted to me.

We got to know eachother. Both exchanging to the best of our ability.

In that? We found lots in common in our experiences... lots alien.
We are very similar, very different.

There are some things in my life, she can not completely understand, without the experience... and I would not want her to, because it costs too much.
There are things in her life... I can't understand.. and I'm not very willing to pay that price either.

Together?
What we have shared. What we have in common. Even what we experience side by side.

What we internalize? The combined experience? How we shape that in our lives? How it shapes us separately? How it effects us? How it effects people around us?

God help us.. We have children...

All that..
It makes us into what we are becoming.

No matter how bad things get. No matter how we might get. We really make every effort to treat it like any other aspect of life.. We battle at times... We are wounded at times.

We give our effort to be a team, to be content, to survive.

How she challenges me. How I have the same influence on her.
How she... by her very presence..puts my world on end. Tests me to my limits.
Much of the time? If you ask me?
I really don't like it..and fight to no end at times.
Trust me though... I'm not the only one upside down in this. She is just as good a fighter as I.

Deep down though? I know she just wants and needs me to be who I am. The man I am.

She inspires that in me.

I try to inspire her in much the same way (she doesn't like it too much either, at times).

This is no free ride. Never has been in my experience. No cake walk.. Nothing to just walk lightly into.





So.. Back to the question.. and my original answer.

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Whats is so good about having a relationship?

The best answer? The only answer?

I love her.

She is worth it.

I am worth it.

Married and bored Single and lonely.

welcome back heels.

companionship, love, someone to share life with.

LOL I think you have the best answer right there!!!
So which one is really the best?? I think I would rather be single and bored myself