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Topic: Please give me feedback. I'm stuck
TheShadow's photo
Thu 03/06/08 04:24 PM

Hi, I'm 'Dating' this guy who I was engaged to for 3 years. We broke up, then started dating again. But I've started seeing someone else. What do I do? I wanna be with the new guy, but I still love my ex, but I know he isn't good for me. How do I tell him? I was holding on too tight to my ex, and now I wanna let go.


OM Hello, if you were seeing a new guy. WTF you doing with your ex. Sorry to be the ass here. This is why people are so messed up in the head about relationships and the new person that is involved is the one that gets hurt. I don't believe in letting someone get close to me and then start seeing someone else at the same time. It's BS! It's called leading someone on....

LLH5's photo
Thu 03/06/08 04:27 PM

just say i thought it would work out

put i was wrong

and i am sorry that it has come to this

but we just don't fit like we used to

i wish you much happiness

bla bla bla


Good suggestion.

LLH5's photo
Thu 03/06/08 04:31 PM


Hi, I'm 'Dating' this guy who I was engaged to for 3 years. We broke up, then started dating again. But I've started seeing someone else. What do I do? I wanna be with the new guy, but I still love my ex, but I know he isn't good for me. How do I tell him? I was holding on too tight to my ex, and now I wanna let go.


OM Hello, if you were seeing a new guy. WTF you doing with your ex. Sorry to be the ass here. This is why people are so messed up in the head about relationships and the new person that is involved is the one that gets hurt. I don't believe in letting someone get close to me and then start seeing someone else at the same time. It's BS! It's called leading someone on....


I don't see anything wrong with dating more then one person. Though what is wrong, is if they don't know up front they will be dating others.

TheShadow's photo
Thu 03/06/08 04:39 PM
Edited by TheShadow on Thu 03/06/08 04:40 PM



Hi, I'm 'Dating' this guy who I was engaged to for 3 years. We broke up, then started dating again. But I've started seeing someone else. What do I do? I wanna be with the new guy, but I still love my ex, but I know he isn't good for me. How do I tell him? I was holding on too tight to my ex, and now I wanna let go.


OM Hello, if you were seeing a new guy. WTF you doing with your ex. Sorry to be the ass here. This is why people are so messed up in the head about relationships and the new person that is involved is the one that gets hurt. I don't believe in letting someone get close to me and then start seeing someone else at the same time. It's BS! It's called leading someone on....


I don't see anything wrong with dating more then one person. Though what is wrong, is if they don't know up front they will be dating others.


I do, because most of the time people let other get there feeling invoved and they don't tell them there seeing someone else till it's to late. So tell me, If you started to fall for a man and after a little while he tells you that he is seeing someone else and dumps you. Is that ok with you????

TheShadow's photo
Thu 03/06/08 04:42 PM
Edited by TheShadow on Thu 03/06/08 04:55 PM
People don't know how to just date. Datting someone and being in a relationship is way two different things and most will play with others feelings.....

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Thu 03/06/08 07:29 PM

Hi, I'm 'Dating' this guy who I was engaged to for 3 years. We broke up, then started dating again. But I've started seeing someone else. What do I do? I wanna be with the new guy, but I still love my ex, but I know he isn't good for me. How do I tell him? I was holding on too tight to my ex, and now I wanna let go.

Say you have realized it isn't what you want and move on.

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Thu 03/06/08 07:30 PM

I don't believe in letting someone get close to me and then start seeing someone else at the same time. It's BS! It's called leading someone on....

flowerforyou BRAVO

WAM's photo
Thu 03/06/08 09:35 PM
You shouldn't be with either of them right now. Take a breath and give yourself time to consider yourself and what you want from yourself. When you're clear on that you'll know the answer. Good luck!

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Thu 03/06/08 09:41 PM

Hi, I'm 'Dating' this guy who I was engaged to for 3 years. We broke up, then started dating again. But I've started seeing someone else. What do I do? I wanna be with the new guy, but I still love my ex, but I know he isn't good for me. How do I tell him? I was holding on too tight to my ex, and now I wanna let go.

Read what you just wrote...there is your answer

nvrsaynvr's photo
Thu 03/06/08 09:52 PM
Let go of the ex! He seems to be a bad habit!! Go with the new guy that makes you feel good!!drinker flowerforyou

BlueskyJ's photo
Thu 03/06/08 10:06 PM
Edited by BlueskyJ on Thu 03/06/08 10:08 PM
Tell your Ex he is just a bad habit....or you would've been married already....

besides you already answered your own question...

Hey, up there above me....we said the same thing...didn't notice until i wrote it....great minds think alike....laugh

no photo
Thu 03/06/08 11:11 PM
Thank you everyone. flowerforyou

LLH5's photo
Fri 03/07/08 01:02 AM




Hi, I'm 'Dating' this guy who I was engaged to for 3 years. We broke up, then started dating again. But I've started seeing someone else. What do I do? I wanna be with the new guy, but I still love my ex, but I know he isn't good for me. How do I tell him? I was holding on too tight to my ex, and now I wanna let go.


OM Hello, if you were seeing a new guy. WTF you doing with your ex. Sorry to be the ass here. This is why people are so messed up in the head about relationships and the new person that is involved is the one that gets hurt. I don't believe in letting someone get close to me and then start seeing someone else at the same time. It's BS! It's called leading someone on....


I don't see anything wrong with dating more then one person. Though what is wrong, is if they don't know up front they will be dating others.


I do, because most of the time people let other get there feeling invoved and they don't tell them there seeing someone else till it's to late. So tell me, If you started to fall for a man and after a little while he tells you that he is seeing someone else and dumps you. Is that ok with you????


It's happened to me. Is it ok, generally it is, because it was a "dating" relationship. If I let my feelings get that out of control, then I would be hurt. Like I said, if it was exclusive, that would be a different story. It's nice to know you're a man that would only date one woman at a time.flowerforyou

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