I have tried to take SOME friendships here to another platue
And have found them to have tried to twist or lie or mis-lead me as to who or what THEIR really like.
WHY do so many TRY to DO THAT??
Knowing that THEIR TRUTH will come out!

And when CAUGHT in their twist, THEY act like SO-WHAT? Its just a little lie...WTF???Or,,,I just FORGOT to MENTION "THAT"???

How you have the topic in capitals at the end it thought it said donuts and i got excited

I have been most fortunate and have not run into that.
I am sorry that you have.

Humans create conflict.......i like frogs and turtles better

Too many people can't be true to themselves, let alone other people. I have friends who are now acquaintances because I could stand them lying to me and after being caught not thinking it was any big deal.
Karma will come back around to those that can't be true to anyone at some point and time.
There is someone out there that will be honest with you about who they truely are.

They do that because they feel so secure sitting behind a computer screen that no one will ever find out what they are unwilling to be truthful about.

me to,lol

No,,this isn't a food post,lol
AND SORRY, I type MY WAY.
And it bothers SOME...lol

i luve ya Iam4u, your typing is just fine, heck I reaed all your stuff, I find your stuff quiet amusing!!

mach

Iam4u, I find nothing offending about the way you type

" Choose your friends like ya choose your clothes.....
find something that looks good on ya"
Nothing wrong with your tests of friendship........
your just finding out that the world around us does not put much stock in honesty .......anymore...
sad....but true

Mach, I lov ya to man, it takes a real man to be able to say that to another one, well unless their homo,lol...
But I appreciate your reading and, glad my TYPE don't offend ya.
You sir are COOL in my mind and I also have read your TYPE, sincere and funny in lots...

I agree with you...everything eventually floats to the top. I am 100% honest with everyone. I have done things that I am not proud of and I have done things that I am proud of. I think that when starting a conversation with someone, it is not proper to air the dirty laundry. Eventually, when you get to know each other there should be open communication and honesty. I feel if there is something that is in the past and can be detramental to a relationship...it should be laid out on the table. For example...a woman does not have her kids because she abused them and the guy has kids..they guy should have that right to know something serious like that right off the bat.

I hear ya...It's my general policy to be as upfront as possible at all times. Your right, sooner or later the truth always comes out. I think some people say what they want to be instead of what or who they are. They would save themselves so much grief if they were just honest. You will never find someone to love, or someone to love you if everything is build on lies and misrepresentation. I think the Internet makes it so easy and tempting to just be something your not and the next thing you know it's snowballed out of control. It's very difficult at that point to just say oops, that really isn't who i am, now let me tell you who i really am. It's an easy trap to fall into. Try to give people a little slack. Life is much easier that way. And try not to take it personally, usually the person misrepresenting themselves feel bad enough.

I THINK thats my BIG problem,,I GIVE TO MUCH "SLACK", and then find that I CAN'T keep on over-looking the small mis-leading things and then tell them we are NOT working out very good as LOVERS, we made BETTER FRIENDS..
But the TIME involved with coming to THAT conclusion,,,is TIME I wish I had NOT WASTED on someones lies!

honestly...follow your intuition. You will rarely go wrong if you just listen to instincts. To many of us ignore our intuition and see or focus on what we want to see or believe.

THANK YOU,,,,,,,GREAT to see a lady say THAT!
I fully agree.....

LMAO .. ahhhhhhhhh the question of the universe dear friend

Yep, by about 75 lbs

please..i am me,what you see is what ya get.