most people get pregnant, some have a abortion, and some keep the child. i have saw a family member hit her daughter so hard you could see the pain in her eyes, the little girl around 5 years old, would run upstairs, and her mom would chase her up the stairs with a stick and hit her.

you here of so many children who arnt looked after properly or they are abused etc.

some people DONT deserve to have cildren.

it annoys me the most, because it will take me longer to get pregnant due to my illness, or i would need surgery first to remove the endo, and most endo sufferers get pregnant then. there is people out there, like me who would love to have a child, but fear they may never, like i do, even though ivf is free here it still scares me. and for the people who have had endless amounts of ivf and it didnt work, or people who had cancer and had to have a hysterectomy, my heart bleeds for them, there dream like mine is to have children. ive saw many rejected children, and ive had friends who have said i dont want the baby. to me people who get pregnant, dont count there blessings, theres so many peple out there wanting a baby so much they would do anything. and thers people in this world killing babies by abortion, that sickens me, because for the people who desperatly want children will give that baby a life.
dont take for granted you have a child, your very lucky. it makes me sad to think maybe I and others will never experience being a mother. I would never give up trying,i want my dream to come true. also it appears the people that who really want a baby have problems, and the ones who dont really want the baby get pregnant really quick.

my son is a product of a date rape. can't imagine not having him in my life.

help me out here
you say youre not for people getting abortions or abusing their kids but when you seen this did you bother to stop her or call the cops??

when she got a bit older she would answer back, so her mom stopped doing it, if it hadnt of stopped yes i would have repoted it

awwwwwwwwww.

im just saying it annoys people have children and treat them like crap, i just think some people dont deserve to have kids. its just sad the people who desperatly want,sometimes cant.

You are so right but thats the way the world is anymore and I don't think its going to change anytime soon. But did you try to help by calling anyone?

I can't have more kids but I'm thankful for the one i have...he is a great kid

okay so if something would have happen that time and you could have stopped it but didnt you'd feel like major **** right about now huh?
just cause it was a family member doesnt make it any differant
you can say people who beat their kids are assholes then not do any thing about it when its right in front of your face weither she talks back now or not
you really think at 5 she had a voice for that??
no you could have been her voice!!
you even say you seen the look in her eyes
..was it a look of help??

not in any way for knocking you for not being able to have kids but you could have made a differance in hers that day

i got advice, but around that time she stop doing it. they just said if it continues take fuether action then,

i got advice, but around that time she stop doing it. they just said if it continues take fuether action then,

if you read what ive said i did ask for help, they did send social workers arond, but she stopped doing it after a few weeks.

sorry all that posted while i was typing

i didnt say i couldnt have kids, if i couldnt get pregnant, they do a operatrion remove the endo and most women get pregnant then, and ivf is free here, so theres always options. but removing the endo, normally does work, but you have to start trying fast before the endo comes back.

When my children were small, we had a neighborlady that was abusing her toddler son, simply for the fact that he was a boy. As she was beating and kicking this kid, she would be yelling that she hated him and had never wanted a son! Why couldn't he have been born a girl!, etc. I was so disgusted by the way she treated this child, I called Children and Youth services. The first person I talked with told me basically that some people raise their children like that! I waited two days and called again, this time I got someone who felt like I did. The son was taken away for a while, the mom had to go to counselling. I ended up moving shortly afterwards, and don't know how it all turned out.

kudos to you summer lady!

luckily for the her mom, the health visitors was a deterant and she didnt do it again.

Thanks Duckie, but having my own children was not easy. I miscarried a few times before I was able to carry my kids. I was very thankful that I was able to finally have my kids, I just could not understand how that woman could treat her child that way.

My point was though that considering the response I got the first time I reported it, you sometimes wonder how om the world that person got their job! and if that is how CYS people look at this -- what's the use in reporting issues.

I am glad I called the second time though.

thats ok

What if the mother abused the girl and killed her before she got "a bit older"???? You should have done something!

I'm so sorry debbie, I feel your pain ,I understand you desire to have a child.And not understanding why you cant & others that don't deserve them do..Its like asking why the good die young..Or why is there war..How come some are so healthy and others so sickly & such,Or why some have so much & others can't even get by.. these ?'s just can't be answered unfortunately..I just live by faith that 1 day they will be..