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after my ex and i broke up a few weeks later we started hanging out/sleeping together, this lasted quite a few months until he decided it was time to go our seperate ways because he felt i was just using him for sex rather than trying to fix things up between us although he was the one to say he didnt want a relationship and out of all the options i layed out he only chose the sex......so now hes trying to talk to me again and wants to forgive and forget and try and move on and find a future for us......but i kinda feel like its going to slip into the same routine as last time considering he texts me at 11 at night asking me if i want to come over???
what can i say nicely in the best possible way that i wont sleep with him not at least i can see some kind of commitment happening or what can i say to suggest the possiblity of starting at the begginning and maybe date a while first to see if we should be trying to fix things at all this time???? |
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Yikes!!
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 uhhhhhhh.....Anyone??
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Tell him how u feel, be honest and up front with him.
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just tell him you've found another blue box
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buy a jeep lol
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Buy a gun.
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buy a jeep lol 
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buy a jeep lol
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Maybe you could tell him that you will give it a try for a period of time without any sex involved. This way you all can get to know each other without sex complicating the situation. If he won't go for this, you will know he is between relationships and just wants you as a late night butty call.
If you want to end it, just tell him nicely that you don't think this is going to work and you want to be friends only. |
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after my ex and i broke up a few weeks later we started hanging out/sleeping together, this lasted quite a few months until he decided it was time to go our seperate ways because he felt i was just using him for sex rather than trying to fix things up between us although he was the one to say he didnt want a relationship and out of all the options i layed out he only chose the sex......so now hes trying to talk to me again and wants to forgive and forget and try and move on and find a future for us......but i kinda feel like its going to slip into the same routine as last time considering he texts me at 11 at night asking me if i want to come over??? what can i say nicely in the best possible way that i wont sleep with him not at least i can see some kind of commitment happening or what can i say to suggest the possiblity of starting at the begginning and maybe date a while first to see if we should be trying to fix things at all this time???? unfortunately I feel that an ex is an ex for a reason - going back is going back to the same thing ... sorry! |
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buy a jeep lol
Dude.... we are AWESOME help!!! 
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buy a jeep lol
Dude.... we are AWESOME help!!!
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after my ex and i broke up a few weeks later we started hanging out/sleeping together, this lasted quite a few months until he decided it was time to go our seperate ways because he felt i was just using him for sex rather than trying to fix things up between us although he was the one to say he didnt want a relationship and out of all the options i layed out he only chose the sex......so now hes trying to talk to me again and wants to forgive and forget and try and move on and find a future for us......but i kinda feel like its going to slip into the same routine as last time considering he texts me at 11 at night asking me if i want to come over??? what can i say nicely in the best possible way that i wont sleep with him not at least i can see some kind of commitment happening or what can i say to suggest the possiblity of starting at the begginning and maybe date a while first to see if we should be trying to fix things at all this time???? |
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GUYS!!!! You should be able to see thru your own gender's BS ..... why you actin' so dense.
I'm disappointed here ................. *waiting* for the men to help this chica 
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Tell him how u feel, be honest and up front with him. yes honesty is the best policy |
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buy a jeep lol
Dude.... we are AWESOME help!!!
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Tell him you're allergic.....to him
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sorry.... im asham
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