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briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Wed 02/27/08 12:27 PM
Could you continue a relationship with someone that wasnt really into the sex, but everything else was great?

ladyblack67 Joined Mon 06/11/07 Posts: 2404	Wed 02/27/08 12:28 PM
yup! it's not really about sex

blueeyedbarbie Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 310	Wed 02/27/08 12:29 PM
yup! it's not really about sex Would have to agree with this one!

FaithfulOne78 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 15313	Wed 02/27/08 12:30 PM
Yup I was for 7 1/2 years!

ladyblack67 Joined Mon 06/11/07 Posts: 2404	Wed 02/27/08 12:30 PM
and not all people are into sex, I'm not, Barbie isn't, and I've had TONS of dates!!!

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Wed 02/27/08 12:30 PM
i think there has to be a balance. without a sex life...just be great friends...without a friendship...be bed buddies. just my thought

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Wed 02/27/08 12:31 PM
Been there done that .. the worst part is I started blaming myself , like I was not hot enough , and he was more than willing to let me take that blame ..

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Wed 02/27/08 12:31 PM
i'd make it better

ladyblack67 Joined Mon 06/11/07 Posts: 2404	Wed 02/27/08 12:32 PM
i think there has to be a balance. without a sex life...just be great friends...without a friendship...be bed buddies. just my thought good view, but I think there has to be: 6 dates meet the friends and kissing

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Wed 02/27/08 12:32 PM
Nope

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Wed 02/27/08 12:32 PM
i think there has to be a balance. without a sex life...just be great friends...without a friendship...be bed buddies. just my thought I know people that perfer not to have intimacy, but i agree with you. you have to have a balance. Being a sexual seems scary.

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Wed 02/27/08 12:33 PM
I'd continue the relationship.

Nickinolosers Joined Thu 06/07/07 Posts: 15208	Wed 02/27/08 12:33 PM
Nope

kerouacfan Joined Tue 10/09/07 Posts: 513	Wed 02/27/08 12:33 PM
nope

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Wed 02/27/08 12:34 PM
Been there done that .. the worst part is I started blaming myself , like I was not hot enough , and he was more than willing to let me take that blame .. I hated when i had to surpress my intimate feelings. It was the worst two years. Better off being alone

tanyaztoy Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 181	Wed 02/27/08 12:34 PM
I agree kind of. It's not all about sex, but if you're in a relationship I think some sort of imtimacy is needed otherwise you'd just be friends.

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Wed 02/27/08 12:34 PM
Could you continue a relationship with someone that wasnt really into the sex, but everything else was great? It depends on how into sex you are. If it is important to you it will never work. If you are ok masturbating in bed while your wife lays next to you , go for it

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Wed 02/27/08 12:34 PM
i think there has to be a balance. without a sex life...just be great friends...without a friendship...be bed buddies. just my thought I know people that perfer not to have intimacy, but i agree with you. you have to have a balance. Being a sexual seems scary. if you want intimacy and the other isn't into hat...then it won't work. I don't think there is anything wrong either way but there has to be that common ground or feelings will be hurt etc. better off to be friends I think

ladyblack67 Joined Mon 06/11/07 Posts: 2404	Wed 02/27/08 12:35 PM
but all these tv and movies that are sex~centered put that idea into teens heads that it's important to have sex

Jistme Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 2991	Wed 02/27/08 12:36 PM
I don't think I'd discontinue the relationship on that point alone.. But I certainly would reclassify it for what it is... A friendship.