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Topic: Approachment
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Tue 02/26/08 04:42 AM


I know this sounds completely dorky, but I have studied vaudeville routines. So when i approach a lady I can usally get them laughing, before I have to say anything.



huh huh huh


Vaudeville was funny ?? grumble

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Tue 02/26/08 05:58 AM
It's always flattering .. blushing

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Tue 02/26/08 05:18 PM

Quick poll for you all.

Men: Do you approach women walking on the street without anything to provoke the meeting?

Women: Would you get freaked out if a man approached you while you were walking on the street?


No. There's two reason for this-

- That would likely get me tazered or sprayed in the face with pepper spray

and

- I'm just too shy to try any of that stuff.


Single_Rob's photo
Tue 02/26/08 05:20 PM
I have walked up to women in a crowded place before that I have never met, and told them they were beautiful. I usually do not hang around to guage their reaction. Truth is truth

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Tue 02/26/08 05:49 PM
I had this amazing man walk up to me on the street. Late at night. We will be friends forever. Don't ever pass up a chance to meet some you feel an instant attraction to. You never know. blushing

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Wed 02/27/08 07:02 PM
It depends what he looked like and how he approached. I might.

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Wed 02/27/08 09:32 PM
yes.

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Wed 02/27/08 09:33 PM
I prefer alleys.......but hey....thats just me!!!!!!

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Wed 02/27/08 10:03 PM
Yes, I do, but I do it in an harmless, sarcastic unassuming way... kinda like

"Excuse me miss... Ummm... I was looking for the Starlight adult theater, would you know the location?"

For some reason, it rarely ever works... :cry:

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Thu 02/28/08 08:15 AM

Yes, I do, but I do it in an harmless, sarcastic unassuming way... kinda like

"Excuse me miss... Ummm... I was looking for the Starlight adult theater, would you know the location?"

For some reason, it rarely ever works... :cry:

Doesn't work because you said "excuse me." Here's a challenge for ya: try that exact line minus the excuse me (just say hey instead) and notice the difference in results.

It really doesn't matter how silly, outlandish, or random your opening line is as you are coming from a position of confidence and fun. "Excuse me" usually comes from a position of "I'm sorry for talking to you because I have no right to talk to strangers and I have zero confidence in myself."

The best opener i've heard recently was from one of my friends named Fernando. He went around at a party, high energied, asking random girls "Hi! Are you Fernando? No? Well, I'm Fernando. Nice to meet you!"

Genius.

It really doens't matter WHAT you say. Just f*cking say SOMETHING. It's all in the attitude :wink:

...just don't say/do anything creepy or you may end up with a face full of mace or worse lol

eskimo_nell's photo
Thu 02/28/08 08:16 AM
I wouldn't get freaked out if a guy approached me just shocked.laugh laugh laugh

curios789's photo
Thu 02/28/08 09:19 AM


Yes, I do, but I do it in an harmless, sarcastic unassuming way... kinda like

"Excuse me miss... Ummm... I was looking for the Starlight adult theater, would you know the location?"

For some reason, it rarely ever works... :cry:

Doesn't work because you said "excuse me." Here's a challenge for ya: try that exact line minus the excuse me (just say hey instead) and notice the difference in results.

It really doesn't matter how silly, outlandish, or random your opening line is as you are coming from a position of confidence and fun. "Excuse me" usually comes from a position of "I'm sorry for talking to you because I have no right to talk to strangers and I have zero confidence in myself."

The best opener i've heard recently was from one of my friends named Fernando. He went around at a party, high energied, asking random girls "Hi! Are you Fernando? No? Well, I'm Fernando. Nice to meet you!"

Genius.

It really doens't matter WHAT you say. Just f*cking say SOMETHING. It's all in the attitude :wink:

...just don't say/do anything creepy or you may end up with a face full of mace or worse lol

huh He was obviously joking.

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Thu 02/28/08 09:38 AM
I scare men......I intimidate them Ive been told.........could it be my ninja stance???noway laugh noway

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Thu 02/28/08 09:38 AM
or it is because I walk with that saturday night fever bounce........i dunno.......noway

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Thu 02/28/08 03:54 PM



Yes, I do, but I do it in an harmless, sarcastic unassuming way... kinda like

"Excuse me miss... Ummm... I was looking for the Starlight adult theater, would you know the location?"

For some reason, it rarely ever works... :cry:

Doesn't work because you said "excuse me." Here's a challenge for ya: try that exact line minus the excuse me (just say hey instead) and notice the difference in results.

It really doesn't matter how silly, outlandish, or random your opening line is as you are coming from a position of confidence and fun. "Excuse me" usually comes from a position of "I'm sorry for talking to you because I have no right to talk to strangers and I have zero confidence in myself."

The best opener i've heard recently was from one of my friends named Fernando. He went around at a party, high energied, asking random girls "Hi! Are you Fernando? No? Well, I'm Fernando. Nice to meet you!"

Genius.

It really doens't matter WHAT you say. Just f*cking say SOMETHING. It's all in the attitude :wink:

...just don't say/do anything creepy or you may end up with a face full of mace or worse lol

huh He was obviously joking.


Did I miss something? Did "The world's most successful reformed player ever" just get dating tips from a 'pickup artist'? Jones, that's like giving Michael Jordan jumpshot tips. I may be retired, but I still don't need the advice... Good Lord man!!

It's called makin a funny!?? huh

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