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Topic: To care or not
yellowrose10's photo
Mon 02/25/08 12:01 PM
Is it better to care and be hurt or to not care and walk away?

shoes4rhon's photo
Mon 02/25/08 12:02 PM
Care ... to not care is weak .... it is easy to walk away but much harder to stay ... grumble

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 02/25/08 12:03 PM
sucks but I agree. I would be so much easier to just say oh well bye. Too bad more people don't care

erowid1's photo
Mon 02/25/08 12:04 PM
care and if your hurt,knock the **** outa them and then stop caring!

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 02/25/08 12:05 PM
lol easier said than done. It's not easy to just walk away when you are worried about someone you care about even if you want to knock the *&^&$*&#^%^#)^% out of them

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Mon 02/25/08 12:15 PM
To Care with hurt being possible, with pain you tend to gain strength and knowledge. To be afraid to care is to run away from one of the best feelings in life. Be bold grab his heart by the balls and care, when hurt grab him by the balls and hurt laugh

no photo
Mon 02/25/08 12:16 PM
I want it to hurt!!!devil devil devil

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 02/25/08 12:17 PM

To Care with hurt being possible, with pain you tend to gain strength and knowledge. To be afraid to care is to run away from one of the best feelings in life. Be bold grab his heart by the balls and care, when hurt grab him by the balls and hurt laugh


lol very well said. too bad the now ex fiance doesn't want anyone to care or be there for him when he needs it

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Mon 02/25/08 12:17 PM

Is it better to care and be hurt or to not care and walk away?
To Care,,,,IF,,,,you think you are HUMAN..?:heart:
The heart always heals, to be uncaring is to have already died, inside.:wink: flowerforyou :heart:

Monier's photo
Mon 02/25/08 12:17 PM
To care. Welcome hurt, it reminds you that you're alive.

portal's photo
Mon 02/25/08 12:18 PM
It is better to care. Otherwise we become heartless, hollow people.
Yes we will hurt sometimes, but it's worth it.

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 02/25/08 12:19 PM

To care. Welcome hurt, it reminds you that you're alive.


lol I must be the most alive person in the world huh?

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 02/25/08 12:22 PM
ok so how do you say ... you're on your own now and walk away and not worry anymore

AaronzDad's photo
Mon 02/25/08 12:22 PM

Caring doesn't mean you try to control or manage the other person. Sometimes the most caring thing you can do is look 'em in the eye while they're down and say "No, you pick your own damn self up".

And sometimes it's walking away. Even if it does hurt.


yellowrose10's photo
Mon 02/25/08 12:23 PM


Caring doesn't mean you try to control or manage the other person. Sometimes the most caring thing you can do is look 'em in the eye while they're down and say "No, you pick your own damn self up".

And sometimes it's walking away. Even if it does hurt.




aka tough love right?

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 02/25/08 12:24 PM


To care. Welcome hurt, it reminds you that you're alive.


lol I must be the most alive person in the world huh?



I doubt it .. ask any parent that question .... smokin

countrybumpkin2u's photo
Mon 02/25/08 12:25 PM
Thats a HARD one for me ...given my exsp.ohwell

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 02/25/08 12:25 PM
lol i'm a parent as well. my baby is almost 18

no photo
Mon 02/25/08 12:26 PM
Nothing like a good cry once in a while......hmmmmmsad Now I feel better!!!bigsmile drinker

AaronzDad's photo
Mon 02/25/08 12:26 PM

aka tough love right?


Yeah, and amusingly the "tough" part is often on the lover more than the loved. Even if it doesn't seem that way at the time.


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