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I am not going to name who it is on this site that I have met, and been dating for months, my family met him, I even introduced him to my 4 year old, I thought everything was going well. He was a gentleman, opened my doors, even would wash my dishes when I cooked for him. About a month ago he moved out of his roomates to a place on his own, but would not show me the place, or even tell me where it was, then he became unavailable on the nights and weekends. Started not showing up when he was supposed. Those are the tell tale signs he is with another. Has told me the past 4 weeks how we will get a place together, I was not pushing that, I have a lease, telling me how much he loved me, and wants to make up for his absense the last few weeks and lack of effort. Well I got a call from a woman claiming to be his wife> I was right, do not mess with my intuition, it is never wrong, he had gotten back together with his ex wife, and could not be man enough to say so. I have never been more hurt then when people lie and cheat.
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I am sorry you have gone thru this, but you are correct our instincts are our own best judge of character.
His loss!!! 
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I am sooo sorry. That absolutely stinks.
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Sorry things worked out that way.
I tend to not wear my heart on my sleeve these days. He is gonna have to be a really awesome man to make me fall in love.
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I am not going to name who it is on this site that I have met, and been dating for months, my family met him, I even introduced him to my 4 year old, I thought everything was going well. He was a gentleman, opened my doors, even would wash my dishes when I cooked for him. About a month ago he moved out of his roomates to a place on his own, but would not show me the place, or even tell me where it was, then he became unavailable on the nights and weekends. Started not showing up when he was supposed. Those are the tell tale signs he is with another. Has told me the past 4 weeks how we will get a place together, I was not pushing that, I have a lease, telling me how much he loved me, and wants to make up for his absense the last few weeks and lack of effort. Well I got a call from a woman claiming to be his wife> I was right, do not mess with my intuition, it is never wrong, he had gotten back together with his ex wife, and could not be man enough to say so. I have never been more hurt then when people lie and cheat. 
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so sorry this happened to you....his loss
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Awww....
I was reading a fellers topic and he wanted to know what "No Drama" meant.. THIS IS WHAT IT MEANS!!! 
OMG!!! See thats why I will never get with someone in here. I know not all men are the same, but its too hurtful to go thru that!! If ya need anything...Let me know.
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I am just out of a relationship where HE asked me to move in and marry him. I wanted to take it slow at first because we were friends first and I didn't want to ruin that. He started pushing me away and not talking to me about what was going on. I didn't meet him from this site but he is the one that got me here when we were friends. The person I thought was my best friend turned cold and hateful to me when I wanted to help. It's hard to judge people sometimes and probably best you don't judge and go with your gut like you did. Best of luck
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What a dumbass...mmmmm i guess u cant give his name but i think you should send email to others warnin them who it is...his loss!!!sorry doll!!!
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Sorry to hear that, I can not stand liars & cheaters, Big no-no in my book!!
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Awww.... I was reading a fellers topic and he wanted to know what "No Drama" meant.. THIS IS WHAT IT MEANS!!!
OMG!!! See thats why I will never get with someone in here. I know not all men are the same, but its too hurtful to go thru that!! If ya need anything...Let me know.
as a man...i think you are wrong about all men being like that...but at same time need to be careful...and follow instincts...men can tell life situations like that also... |
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Guys, (note I did not say men) make things hard for the rest of us.
Sorry dear. |
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Edited by
dysFUNctional
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Mon 02/25/08 08:46 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear that rj
But be fore-warned that there are also people who will chat forever, and say they are in Africa on business and say they are willing to relocate and are coming to meet you, send flowers and candy and the day before they say they can't get out of the country for some reason and want to send you a check to cash for them and have western union it to them, Oh and they are widowed and have a kid (I had this happen to me 3 times!). None of them got any money or anything from me....anyway the moral of the story...looker beware!  
Oh and they are also gorgeous! |
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I'm very sorry 2 hear that sweetheart.Always trust ur instinct most certainly.I have been deceived twice since I've been on this site.Guard ur heart @ all times & watch closely 4 signs.I've meet some very good people here,& have some dear friends but I'll tell U from sheer experience there are massive amounts of players,creeps,weirdo's etc.in & out of this site.I wish U luck dear upon ur venture.Be Careful!!Godspeed!CyPoet
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I'm so sorry to hear that rj
But be fore-warned that there are also people who will chat forever, and say they are in Africa on business and say they are willing to relocate and are coming to meet you, send flowers and candy and the day before they say they can't get out of the country for some reason and want to send you a check to cash for them and have western union it to them, Oh and they are widowed and have a kid (I had this happen to me 3 times!). None of them got any money or anything from me....anyway the moral of the story...looker beware!
Oh and they are also gorgeous! Listen to Brad Paisley's "Online"...very fitting and funny lol |
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Hey do not want to be miread, I am not male bashing, I know not all men are like that, but what is wrong with men? I did not push things, I was laid back, and when we first started seeing each other he was not with her, it is just in the past 4 weeks he got back with her, but was still talking to me about our future. What is wrong with these men now a days?
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Hey do not want to be miread, I am not male bashing, I know not all men are like that, but what is wrong with men? ... What is wrong with these men now a days?
Wrong question. He's gone and what does it matter what his issues are? The answer you need to find is to the question "Why are you attracted to that kind of guy?" Untie that knot and you'll be on your way to eliminating those kinds of leeches from your life. |
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he did you such a favor .. but you need to look at the type of men you are attracted to
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Sorry things worked out that way. I tend to not wear my heart on my sleeve these days. He is gonna have to be a really awesome man to make me fall in love.
AGREED 
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I am not going to name who it is on this site that I have met, and been dating for months, my family met him, I even introduced him to my 4 year old, I thought everything was going well. He was a gentleman, opened my doors, even would wash my dishes when I cooked for him. About a month ago he moved out of his roomates to a place on his own, but would not show me the place, or even tell me where it was, then he became unavailable on the nights and weekends. Started not showing up when he was supposed. Those are the tell tale signs he is with another. Has told me the past 4 weeks how we will get a place together, I was not pushing that, I have a lease, telling me how much he loved me, and wants to make up for his absense the last few weeks and lack of effort. Well I got a call from a woman claiming to be his wife> I was right, do not mess with my intuition, it is never wrong, he had gotten back together with his ex wife, and could not be man enough to say so. I have never been more hurt then when people lie and cheat. but it seems like you knew in your gut well before the axe fell. certainly that doesn't make it easier, but there should be a little relief in that you at least had forewarning that something sketchy was up. condsider yourself very blessed. now all that lying and under-cover crap is her problem- not yours thank God. be grateful to the pain, cuz it saved you from a whole lotta misery. |
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