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Nice or bad, if you don't act you'll never be had!
You need to go after the things you want in life. If you want someone and you're not willing to work for it, you'll end up all alone... Go make those first contacts...Don't be Scared! |
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Simply stated, there is a very fine line between a nice and a guy who's simply a pu$$y. When you begin not to cross it and learn to balance on it, the real fun begins. I disagree. Nice guys are great. Doormats are suckers. This is a self-esteem issue and not at all about if you're a good person. There is simply no equating gullibility and how you treat others. The only similarity is that they both teach others to treat them a certain way. Or try to, in some cases. 
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its them darn canadian women who make us bad...heheheh  We make you crazy and bad!!! 
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most women like guys who can spell too
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That's kind of closeminded to assume that the women that say that aren't looking... unless you're watching their every move and know that for certain? 
Well most women i talk to say that they will never make the first move. That is what I am talking about. If you want a nice guy you are going to have to make the first move, and then if a nice guy does ask you out, he might not be that confident but say yes once in a while. I make the first move all the time, be careful about blanket statements. |
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i think most nice guys are shy and have a hard time asking girls out, thats my problem
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most women like guys who can spell too That's right
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i think most nice guys are shy and have a hard time asking girls out, thats my problem  
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Edited by
Tobias1540
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Sun 02/24/08 12:05 PM
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That's kind of closeminded to assume that the women that say that aren't looking... unless you're watching their every move and know that for certain?
Well most women i talk to say that they will never make the first move. That is what I am talking about. If you want a nice guy you are going to have to make the first move, and then if a nice guy does ask you out, he might not be that confident but say yes once in a while. I make the first move all the time, be careful about blanket statements. I put two qualifiers on my statement. First was most and the second was women that i know lol. As far as i can tell you are doing a great job, and this post was not ment for you lol |
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But thats what i am saying if you want a nice guy you have to do some of the chasing. But it will be worth it. Ummm... as the 'guy' in question, Tobias... as far as lilith is concerned. There is one noticeable difference between you and I. I will not label myself in here, real life or anywhere. It is not for me to say, what a woman considers me to be. They make that choice..not us. The other noticeable difference. 90% of the women I've talked to on here.. approached me. Not the other way around. So.. although I know the type of person you describe... I don't have near as much contact with them as you do. I'm wondering..how those two differences might correlate? |
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But thats what i am saying if you want a nice guy you have to do some of the chasing. But it will be worth it. Ummm... as the 'guy' in question, Tobias... as far as lilith is concerned. There is one noticeable difference between you and I. I will not label myself in here, real life or anywhere. It is not for me to say, what a woman considers me to be. They make that choice..not us. The other noticeable difference. 90% of the women I've talked to on here.. approached me. Not the other way around. So.. although I know the type of person you describe... I don't have near as much contact with them as you do. I'm wondering..how those two differences might correlate? I don't know how this got to be about you are me. I was never talking about anything or anybody specific. |
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Edited by
Jistme
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Sun 02/24/08 02:23 PM
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This line?
So if you trully want a nice guy go out and look I am a nice guy and I know many nice guys so they are out there and they are everywhere. Then this one Well most women i talk to say that they will never make the first move.
And since you are a self professed 'Nice Guy' This one applies to you as well... If you want a nice guy you are going to have to make the first move, and then if a nice guy does ask you out, he might not be that confident but say yes once in a while.
One might construe all this to be about you. |
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I feel some "man posturing" here....
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 Naw.. just discussing.
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im sorry but im sick of this nice guy bad guy rubbish...you make your own choices who you go out with and everyone is individual
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Please don't kill the messenger but........................it has been shown that a large percentage of women would prefer to date the bad boys and marry the nice guys. Just the way it is.
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