Topic: A BIG Decision
whispertoascream's photo
Tue 02/19/08 09:19 PM
My boyfriend has asked me a couple of times to move with him. I said no at first. As change is one of my biggest fears. And today I sent him an e-mail saying that I will do it. I have been thinking a lot about it since he asked me. And today I agreed. I am still in shock. But now I am scared. I mean there is still a part of me that is afraid to move.

mdl7070's photo
Tue 02/19/08 09:22 PM
you go girl

LadyZombie's photo
Tue 02/19/08 09:23 PM
YOU SHOULD GO FOR IT. THINK OF IT AS A NEW ADVENTUREsmokin

Johncenawlife316's photo
Tue 02/19/08 09:23 PM

My boyfriend has asked me a couple of times to move with him. I said no at first. As change is one of my biggest fears. And today I sent him an e-mail saying that I will do it. I have been thinking a lot about it since he asked me. And today I agreed. I am still in shock. But now I am scared. I mean there is still a part of me that is afraid to move.


Well if you have that much doubt then maybe you should not move in with your boy friend. Only you, your self would know other wise etc.


pkh's photo
Tue 02/19/08 09:23 PM
awww good luck,you won't know unless you try

eileena9's photo
Tue 02/19/08 09:25 PM
{{{{{Mel}}}} Go for it honey!!!!!flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

KennethP5206's photo
Tue 02/19/08 09:29 PM
There is a reason you are scared...it is wrong

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 02/19/08 09:31 PM
Honestly, put a lot of thought into it first...personally, jump in and see if you can swim...of course then again I'm adventerous.

livelife68's photo
Tue 02/19/08 09:33 PM
go for it. change can be a good thing.

no photo
Tue 02/19/08 09:34 PM
Sug, I know you well enough to say that if you don't do it, you'll be kicking yourself in the butt 6 months from now. Repeatedly.

Risks are part of life. You've been dealing with him long enough to know how you feel. And, frankly, I think a change of scenery might do you some good right about now....!!

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EstrellaNegra's photo
Tue 02/19/08 09:34 PM
How far do you have to move?

whispertoascream's photo
Tue 02/19/08 09:45 PM

There is a reason you are scared...it is wrong


So does that mean each and everytime I am scared it is because it is wrong?

I was scared when I first came a mother does that mean it is wrong?

Thank you everybody for encouragment.