I know the feeling meeting people is hard and half of if not more than half the ones u meet arent even worth ur time, too many people out there lookin for someone to use and mooch off of, pickins are slim now a days, but dont give up ppl keep tellin me it will happen when u least expect it and when ur not tryin .........ttyl...........Angie

quit being a BABy and suck it up wuss ive been single my whole life !

try drumming for a bit? theyget alot of ladies.

does he have a sister?

Im not being a baby or a wuss, im just saying there has to be a reason why, i wanna know and fix that ya know..i mean i dont think im super ugly or anything, im a good guy over all...just trying to figure it out thats all..

I played drums for 4 years in a band hehe, i met all the wrong ppl lol

idk either lol, try something different

Hey - you've gotten some great advice here...I agree -

break stuff AND lower your standards.

dang it!

Talk to some other dudes and feel free to ask some ladies here on what you might be doing wrong?
It could just be YOU HAVN'T BEEN SEEN MUCH?
It could be your to criticle on some things?
It might be that your first hello by email, is way out as to what a lady would read from a guy on a first time email to them?
It could be none of your pic's really shor them your FACE?
alot of factors to meeting and making friends here or any site.
Just don't be a quiter be a winner and self explore "YOU" and your attempts and ask people like you are here for some help..
Its all good and its all WHERE WE HAVE ALL BEEN!!!
Good luck and be POSITIVE, and thats how YOU will be felt!

Hehe or it could be im as ugly as hell lol...Oh well your right, ive just been out of the scene so long, i dont even know where to start...I guess ill figure something out..

Don't worry it's really hard to meet people. I am surrounded by people all day and all I want to do after work is go home and relax. So, while I am outgoing as heck, I rarely meet new men. And I'm not the kind of hairstylist who dates her clients... so I too have been single for over 2 years now.

I think it will happen if and when it's supposed to. ANd by trying the iinternet dating thing I feel like I'm helping it out some. You know?

One lady said, "every pot has a lid" well I think I might be a skillet or a griddle... and that might be all right.

You play music in front of people yet you are shy?? That's different. I do get it though, being under the scrutiny of one is so intense... at least in a crowd there will be at least one that digs you!

thats what i come to the ring to

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