It seems my story plays out as me liking a guy and wanting to start a relationship. Then that guy likes me back, but only wants a friends with benefits type of relationship.

I was okay with that set up after my 2 year relationship ended. Now it's been 3 years after that and I still can't seem to find a guy to have a relationship with.

I know I'm young and my someone special is out there. But isn't there a way for me to find good, dateable guys in between, rather than those who just want to fool around?

hi gurl..well i have a friend here hes one wonderful guy..if you dont have in yur friend list you should at take the chance to know him


his name is clarkkentmike

Im just lookin for an intimate encounter

rofl, your horrible mirror.

Yep, that's mirror for you.

I'm just lookin for an intimate encounter with Mirror!

You have to take your time, get to know someone thats how you sometimes weed out the bad ones

Lol, it hasn't been with anyone from this site. This is guys that I've met at like school and such. Kind of the reason why I joined this site to hopefully find a guy to have a relationship.

Dont give up hope. He will come when you are least expecting it. Maybe your standards are too high.


I 'broke' up with a guy that I met on here. I felt unwanted and sad. But on V-Day when I wasnt expecting Kenny (this amazing and such a sweet guy) to come along. He has brought great joy back into my life.

Dont give up hope hun

Thank you Lonely. I'm not giving up quite yet and I'm glad you've found an amazing person to talk to ^^

And I don't think my standards are too high...It just seems like everyone I know and have a connection with just wants to connect with my body =/

find one of those "nice guys" that don't seem like they even exist. you know those guys that see to blend in with the furniture all slouched and looking completely unconfident? yeah, those guys. they are "nice guys." they want relationships the most.

*nods* I am indeed looking. And they are indeed hard to find, especially on my campus where going out and getting drunk at bars is all the rage, bleh.

u can find nice guys at bars, too! they stand against the wall with their drinks held in front of their chests, trying to look tough out of their own insecurities. if you talk to these guys and they end up buying you a drink, he's definitely one of the "nice guys."

however, a word of caution... it'll be easy to get into a relationship with nice guys, but they'll be ANNOYING AS F*CK to deal with cuz they have a lot of self esteem issues and it will seem as they are sacrficing everything about them for YOU and i guess it'll make you feel weird or something.

Lol, well I'm not much of a bar goer. But I don't doubt that there are nice guys there.

And true story. I'm just really hoping to find someone I have a good balance with I have my own issues o.o

come on over baby