Oh my gosh. I met this guy originally on this site, and then I found him later on Myspace. We talked for a long time, and exchanged phone numbers and the like. I really liked/like him.

Last weekend I went to the mall, and we were going to meet there. I texted him and he said he was busy and what-not. I told him I was going to be at the mall for 4 hours, and he could come when he felt like it. Later on, after about the 3 hour mark, I texted him and asked what he was doing, you know, real casual litte "what's up?". He said he was on his way to another town to visit his sister >_<

I was so upset. Luckily, I was with my friend, so, I wasn't alone, but I felt so abandoned and hopeless. We had planned this meeting for weeks, and he just bailed out on me. We still talk and stuff, but I dunno. I really felt hurt. Do I have the right to feel that way? Or am I just blowing this out of proportion.

Maybe he was nervous, granted thats no reason to just leave someone hangin like that. Have you tried meeting again?

after what he did you still talk to him?

i wouldn't

No, not yet. I don't want to be left waiting for 4 hours again >_< There's only so many stores in the mall, and only so much stuff you can buy with $50, LOL.

Obviously his time is more important.....

He's really nice and stuff. Sometimes.

I agree. He should have just told you he was going to go see his sister instead of letting you wait there.

Yea thats pretty lame. I would just chalk it up to experience and move on. Ive been with girls who would do things like that to me but I would always give them another chance. It was a mistake but I learned from it.

you totally have the right. If he doesnt have enought respect for you to let you know he wont be able to make it for a PLANNED meeting then he probably wont give you respect in other things in a relationship. No body deserves that. If you are with someone you should be partners 50/50 and that means you respect your partner and have to trust them to respect you.

ditch him

Bring on the next guy!

I don't learn my lessons easily >_< I try, but I'll fall right back into it the next guy who's cute and gives me a little attention.

True true true.

Ooooooooohhhhh! You're only 18. You'll learn how to not take peoples sh*t as you get older.

Yeah, I'm a newbie, LOL. Maybe that's my problem.

understandable but if he really wanted to meet you, he should have made an effort and called and tell you that there is a slight change of plan and that he apologize and that he still wants to reschedule. ---> now that's a man!

his a wuss.

Where can I find one of those? Haha.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=Zr0T5vLLXdA watch this

there's a lot. so drop him and move on to the next.

NEXT!

yes shure because maybe he have other girlfriend but don,t worri you are a pretty lady you can finda other good man