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I'd prefer to know someone fairly well before they started giving me nicknames like "baby".. But once I get close to someone, I use them alot. I use "honey" alot with my friends, but "sexmuffin" is reserved for my friend Jacob, and people give us the STRANGEST looks when I call him that Have to admit, I would have to wonder about that as well Oh I LOVE when someone says they love me...then I can mess with their head |
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can't do that right now! Hi, Suz! |
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I....I...I... can't do that right now! Hi, Suz! What's up! |
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I knew a guy that tried to tell me it was perfectly acceptable where he was raised to refer to a woman as b*tch or c*nt...I told him it may be acceptable there but here you will show respect. I will generally respond to anything, some things just catch me off guard, but I will still answer. It's a very select few people who are allowed to use such terms with me. But we just have that kind of relationship, and we know we're joking, and it's okay. But if some random person tried to call me that, I would tell them what-for. |
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I....I...I... can't do that right now! Hi, Suz! What's up! Just causing trouble on the 4th and 5th page of the cacofoany" or however she spelled it thread. Lots of drama, and I'm trying to be both annoying and funny. |
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I knew a guy that tried to tell me it was perfectly acceptable where he was raised to refer to a woman as b*tch or c*nt...I told him it may be acceptable there but here you will show respect. I will generally respond to anything, some things just catch me off guard, but I will still answer. It's a very select few people who are allowed to use such terms with me. But we just have that kind of relationship, and we know we're joking, and it's okay. But if some random person tried to call me that, I would tell them what-for. Yea I was talking to him on the phone. He lives in North Dakota but says he was raised in California. I was talkin to him one time and he says, "hold up b*tch, I was about to say somethin"...NO ONE TALKS TO ME LIKE THAT. I was raised to show respect to everyone, unless they give me reason not to. Now sometimes one of my friends will say "you're a b*tch" but I know they are joking because I will have just done something stupid or unintentionally mean. |
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I....I...I... can't do that right now! Hi, Suz! What's up! Just causing trouble on the 4th and 5th page of the cacofoany" or however she spelled it thread. Lots of drama, and I'm trying to be both annoying and funny. I am trying to keep my nose clean for now. I have someone that's following me around in the threads. Everytime drama happens, he seems to show up right behind me. |
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Yeah that is NOT okay. That's rude!
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Yeah that is NOT okay. That's rude! Exactly! And he tried to tell me that that was just how he talked and I had to accept it. I hung up on him and he promptly sent me an email on yahoo, here, and an im on yahoo telling me how pissed he was that I hung up. |
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It all depends on how we get along...
I don't like it...when it feels like they are saying it...because they forgot my NAME |
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You should have just told him that you were pissed he called you a ***** and that he just needs to accept it!
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Yeah that is NOT okay. That's rude! Exactly! And he tried to tell me that that was just how he talked and I had to accept it. I hung up on him and he promptly sent me an email on yahoo, here, and an im on yahoo telling me how pissed he was that I hung up. some people are nuts |
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You should have just told him that you were pissed he called you a ***** and that he just needs to accept it! I did and we reached an agreement that he would not to it anymore. It worked for a while, then he turned psycho and started stalking a bunch of people. |
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Yeah that is NOT okay. That's rude! Exactly! And he tried to tell me that that was just how he talked and I had to accept it. I hung up on him and he promptly sent me an email on yahoo, here, and an im on yahoo telling me how pissed he was that I hung up. some people are nuts Oh you don't know the half of it |
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With terms of endearment? If you just met someone and they already are saying things like "baby" or stuff like that, are you uncomfortable with that? Ok, this is a given. Guys are easy and they will take what they get most of the time. This is more on the subject for women. ill play with this though being a male like someone said, it depends on the woman for me, but being thet this is the net and looks can be the cause of anothers reaction on what they might say, mostley in the first email. For me, it's something ill play with, but ill have my limits with things because being on here. Every woman on here has heard just about everything you can say to a woman and it gets old real quick with some.... |
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Fair enough Shadow
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you know, when you've been called C**t enough times...sweetie and baby kinda lose their sting...
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you know, when you've been called C**t enough times...sweetie and baby kinda lose their sting... Good point. |
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