Blast!! forgot what I was going to say!!!haha
ah well!! Chin up Sweet! We are all run over by someone that we deeply care for and it makes us question our own self-worth and appeal....on that note you appeal to me....
come here I'll give you a big hug!!

I would rather eat a booger than whine about how men do this and that.Noone can do anything to you that you don't allow..learned that the hard way.

sweetcountrygirl I have read your profile and I cannot see why you do not have a man in your life as you sound like a wonderful lady and any man should be honoured to have you as their girlfriend I am just sorry I live to far for you

Well honey there is definitly nothing wrong with you and something wrong with them! Dont give up sweetie, if we all just gave up how sad would this world be, I should say how sader it would be!!

I have no idea...I have the same problem. Now I'm at the point where I worry about what will happen if/when I do find someone that interests me...I dunno what I will do lol...I think I have developed some trust issues over the past few years lol


Lemme know if ya figure it out!

SMILE AND FALL IN LOVE WITH YOURSELF, YOU'LL BE SURPRISED BY THE MAGNETISM YOU CREATE.
BE GOOD TO YOU, FIND OUT WHAT YOU WANT AND DON'T SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS (BE REALISTIC WITHOUT SELF-DOUGHT)

b/c that's the way most of them are. It happens to me quite often too

Im glad I dont date men, they are all jerks!!!

whats the point of asking why????







its getting us no where and bringing us down

yep. I just let it go

Thanks for the incite into what one man thinks... and possibly more. That does make sense.

I think some of us have huge hearts and we give them away too quickly. I am not talking about sex... but I do think that when we feel like giving our heart away, we also want to make that person feel good. The problem is WE NEED TO slow down and give the guy the opportunity to show himself for what he is really in it for. KINDA like the guy said! Guys jump in to the sex before they realize if they really even like like you. So... my goal is to take my time. Reserve a bit of myself til I see if the guy is in it for me or something less honorable.

That was extremely positive and uplifting.

There is no pity in Sin City........

What does that mean

I honestly think that both male and female feel this way. Everyone gets their heart broken sometime in their life, you just have to pick up and go on! BUT you also have to learn from each relationship that you have.
I think if you have self-esteem issues, people notice this and they do take advantage of it. I think you need to first off, love yourself and then other people will love you. Keep your chin up and realize that as a person, you are sexy. I think if you have self esteem, everyone finds that sexy.
Good luck on your search for a happy relationship! Stay happy and healthy!

as of speaking with a man mouth, it not always the looks so to send a pic and ask if there is anything wrong would not b a way to go about finding the right answer. U need to go withen ur self and see what u may be doing wrong, then fix the prob. for urself. It's not always the man fault, he can olny put up and care for so much.. no theres nothing wrong with ur looks, but theres more to love then looks. And if thats all a man see's in u you gust got used..