We do? I didn't know that... I guess I missed that memo!


The memo was recalled

I am a "What you see, is what you get" guy.
I don't change how I act, because I hope I always act in a decent manner.

I think we all tend to put a best foot forward at the start, but I am pretty much the same person .. I am prob kinder, more patient and gentler because things don't get on my nerves that prob will later ..

In the past... when I was a girl and so hoped others would think I was a woman...
I did do things I should not have. I always cooked, cleaned, went the extra mile. I was understanding of actions and broken promises that today would inflame my anger. But what I really messed up on was not expecting my partner to do the same (to do for me), or at least want to. So I was guilty of spoiling him, I suppose; then I went and had the nerve to be ungrateful that he did not do anything. I take ownership in the fact that I contributed to that, but am not responsbile for his apathy or his being... how do you say... Oh Yeah... "Layed Back" .

There is a "taking care" instinct, sort of maternal but not gross... that makes me want to do things for people. It is still there, but now I'm aware of it. I want equal footing and equal responsibilities in a relationship, and as I mature I understand to be wary of my actions from the start. I'm as cognizant as I can be that I'm doing things for the right reasons, and that they are truly selfless. And I'm darn sure I'm with a guy who feels the same.

wtg lilith

Yeah, me too. I've been missing a LOT of memos lately. Then again, it is so HAWT when some total stranger tells me what I judge people on.

But I gotta see the vedo to be sure....

I'm shy at 1st,Finding myself watching Him more to see how he reacts to things..But after awhile and it dont take long I open up & come completely unwound..sorta shocking at times to see the shift...lol I'm a hyper active person,that chats & talks a lot .Likes to speak my mind & just go,go,go..And some days nothing..You never quite know what girl your going to get..I like to keep it interesting..but yes to your ??

I hear they are making the vedo direct to rental and we can expect it to hit shelves soon. I really don't thaik that will ever get old... And Lex, you are so darn HAWT. Sigh...

Men do judge women based on what they have AND on what they are. Usually these things are one and the same. If women have honor, they tend to be honest and charitable in spirit. If they have fortitude, they tend to be strong, determined, and initiate action rather than run from situations. If they have intelligence, they tend to be well spoken and have a good ability to learn. And so on and so forth. Now, I'm sure you all can think of examples I did not use and parts where I'm wrong, in your opinion, but I think you get the idea.

In this, I agree with the poster. However, I have a suspicion that the comment was made in a material way. I don't collect things, much less men who are interested in that sort of thing.

To make a long story short...sorta... I feel I am the best person I can be on any given day and never wish for what I don't have, much less feel sorry about it. Do I have dreams? yes. Are there material items I want? yes. But what I have is self-respect, self-worth, and a drive to be both introspective and contributory to the world in which I live. And those mean more to me than any man's opinion. I'd be willing to hazard a guess they are more important than a shiny new car, gold bling, or a house on a hill.

I will love you forever so now come do my laundry

Shoes.. you are such a riot on this one... I adore doing laundry. I look forward to it. I'll be over as soon as the ice thaws. Once you see my creases (ironing is a fav too) you truly WILL love me forever... or at least take me shoe shopping.