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Topic: The Ex's Family
Jamie82 Joined Tue 05/08/07 Posts: 14951	Tue 02/12/08 02:10 PM
I was with my ex for 6 yrs and i got very close to his sister in that time...but we have been broken up for a year now and we are'nt on good terms. A lot has happened between me and him since then and its hard for me to continue talking to his sister but on the other hand i really do miss her. has anyone been in this situation...do u have any advice for me??

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Tue 02/12/08 02:11 PM
I stayed best friends with my sister in law for a good 8 yrs after the divorce... Finally, blood became thicker than water but her and I are still friends just not as close as sisters like we used to be...

RWJ198424 Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 45	Tue 02/12/08 02:13 PM
i know what you meen me and my ex broke up about 7 months ago and i was good friends with her cousin and witch is a little different but i still talk to her so i wouldn't se y you shouldn't talk to her it just might make him mad but ohh well

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Tue 02/12/08 02:13 PM
things went bad back stabbers

Jamie82 Joined Tue 05/08/07 Posts: 14951	Tue 02/12/08 02:15 PM
I stayed best friends with my sister in law for a good 8 yrs after the divorce... Finally, blood became thicker than water but her and I are still friends just not as close as sisters like we used to be... im assuming thats what will happen...im her son's godmother as well. its just a sticky situation i guess

KennethP5206 Joined Wed 03/07/07 Posts: 2082	Tue 02/12/08 02:15 PM
I am good friends with bot of my sisters Ex. We are like brothers, and my sisters don't mind

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Tue 02/12/08 02:16 PM
Give it time but be careful, family are closer than anything!!

iraceslowcars Joined Sat 11/17/07 Posts: 5776	Tue 02/12/08 02:17 PM
Sometimes I think the ex inlaws like me better than they like my ex! I feel bad for her about it. They give her boyfriend the cold shoulder, and he really doesn't deserve it. I was the "good" son in law, and they strongly dislike her sister's husband. I still do things for them when they need it, so that helps.

nba21 Joined Mon 08/13/07 Posts: 341	Tue 02/12/08 02:18 PM
My exes family was a pain in the a$$ when we broke it was hard to be sad about the break up, cause of the happiness of never seeing her family again,, I'm still smiling

suzyQ41 Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 1081	Tue 02/12/08 02:18 PM
my ex's family is my family (not what u r thinking). We have always stayed close through the years. They are my sisters and I am glad that they still want me to be a part of their lives. If you miss her friendship, tell her.

Jamie82 Joined Tue 05/08/07 Posts: 14951	Tue 02/12/08 02:22 PM
my ex's family is my family (not what u r thinking). We have always stayed close through the years. They are my sisters and I am glad that they still want me to be a part of their lives. If you miss her friendship, tell her. I have told her and we talk occasionally but im not sure if its a good idea to anymore.

Jamie82 Joined Tue 05/08/07 Posts: 14951	Tue 02/12/08 02:23 PM
Give it time but be careful, family are closer than anything!! exactly! Thats what im thinking

Monosyllabic♥Girl Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 1222	Tue 02/12/08 02:24 PM
tough deal...I know its akward..but the choice is yours. My ex is great friends with my ol' man....weird eh?

Jamie82 Joined Tue 05/08/07 Posts: 14951	Tue 02/12/08 02:34 PM
tough deal...I know its akward..but the choice is yours. My ex is great friends with my ol' man....weird eh? ty time will tell i guess if it gets too awkward for anyone we will have to accept that and move on.