Oh I am big on open-mindedness and tolerance. I believe people should do whatever makes them happy.

Cheers to that...

Too bad more people don't think like that

I think there are to many different religious beliefs for any one to be the only right one! JMO! It goes back to plain and simple respect of others.

Well I have a theory as to why there are so many different belief systems, but I REALLY don't want this moved.

All about the aliens...

No it has nothing to do with scientology. That is the topic I am avoiding. I may start another post if people really wish to hear my theory but I won't discuss it here. This post is for me having to turn down a married man.

Oh, good job on that, Suz!
I shoulda put a smiley face sfter aliens...in fact, I will!

Ok I am sure I will get grief about this but I am turning back to the dating married men thing, I dated a married man and maybe I will go to hell for it, but ya know he treated me better than any man in my entire life ever has. I didnt ruin the marriage, you can't break something that is already obviously broken, I mean yes you can break something more but I dont know what I am trying to say, I just know it worked and I will never ever forget him.

Oh I knew you were joking, I just really don't want this moved to a topic I am trying to avoid right now so as not to lose a friend.

I had the No married block on my emails
& a guy got around it by sending the friends invite with a note on it..
Of course I had to show my dislike about it so the broke my block.
I took it off because I have friends in here that are married & more important to me then blocking the rare emails.

True, you can't break something that is already cracked, I just believe in fidelity. I mean, if the marriage is in that bad a shape, why not divorce and move on? JMO

They have a website for everything these days.

As do I to a point, I also believe you can not help who you fall in love with, no matter how hard you try!

Ok this will sound really cle-sha but sometimes people do stay together for the sake of the kids....which I know is more harm than good in some cases but it happens

Understandable and I am not judging anyone, it is just not my cup of tea.

You never know until your in that person's shoes.

Sure, people grow apart & stay in marriages because of the family & what not.
Most of the time the person that quit putting 100% into the marriage doesn't want anybody else to have their spouse so they keep them in that un happy relationship. If the rejected one said they wanted to see other people that wouldn't go over at all.
Even thou they don't want them anymore.

I do feel sorry for people in that place.

Not that I'm going to get myself involved.

I would always think of what she was missing
& want to help them work on it.

Oh I know Suzann I wasnt saying you were I was just saying there are those of us out that have lived thru the dating married men thing and did fine...not that I go looking for them and I have only dated one but I just wanted to put in my two cents!

Yea I feel the same way.

And all opinions are always welcome. That's what these forums are for. Welcome to JSH by the way.