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Topic: Should i feel this way
isaac_dede's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:42 PM
Hey everone,
I found out my wife was cheating on me with not one but two different guys recently. Well one of the guys was married and my sister knew his wife. Should i feel bad for letting his wife know that her husband was sleeping with my wife? I feel bad but i'm not sure if i should or not....

lcjw's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:43 PM
Wow! that is a tough one!

gurlgmr's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:44 PM
I personally feel that EVERYONE deserves to hear the truth.
No matter if it hurts or not.

no photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:44 PM
I would have done the same thing.

lcjw's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:45 PM

Hey everone,
I found out my wife was cheating on me with not one but two different guys recently. Well one of the guys was married and my sister knew his wife. Should i feel bad for letting his wife know that her husband was sleeping with my wife? I feel bad but i'm not sure if i should or not....

Cheating is like the ultimate betrayal. Maybe she deserves to know....

beccalee1980's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:45 PM
i wouldn't feel bad about it...not at all..she (the wife) deserved to know. i would have done the same thing.
Beccaflowerforyou

isaac_dede's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:45 PM

I personally feel that EVERYONE deserves to hear the truth.
No matter if it hurts or not.

thank you, that's what i thought too. needless to say we are in the process of a divorce...it's not the first time she's cheated on me...i forgave her the first time(over 4 years ago) not doing it again. Can't take it.

no photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:46 PM
tell her but make sure she knows your not doing it for revenge tell her you just wanted her to know because you though she deserved to.

pennyg281's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:46 PM


I think that she has the right to know, how she decides to deal with it is her choice, but I'd want to know.

no photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:46 PM

Hey everone,
I found out my wife was cheating on me with not one but two different guys recently. Well one of the guys was married and my sister knew his wife. Should i feel bad for letting his wife know that her husband was sleeping with my wife? I feel bad but i'm not sure if i should or not....


nope. all the affected parties have it coming. it's like the saying goes, "he who lives by the schlong dies by the schlong".

8607's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:47 PM
I wouldn't feel bad I know a girl that was married for seven years and the entire time her husband was cheating on her with their best friends, which happened to be a married couple. Everything hit the fan and both of them got a divorce. I think it's always better to tell the truth.flowerforyou

shoes4rhon's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:47 PM
the only problem that i see with it is this , you are hurting and were your motives out from a get back stand point? I think that cheating is disgusting so don't get me wrong ,.. but honestly she prob already new or was suspcious and how embarassing is it to her for you to tell her .. I feel bad for her ..

isaac_dede's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:47 PM


Hey everone,
I found out my wife was cheating on me with not one but two different guys recently. Well one of the guys was married and my sister knew his wife. Should i feel bad for letting his wife know that her husband was sleeping with my wife? I feel bad but i'm not sure if i should or not....


nope. all the affected parties have it coming. it's like the saying goes, "he who lives by the schlong dies by the schlong".

laugh laugh laugh laugh
thanx i needed that

longhairbiker's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:48 PM
I'm sorry for your situation. I would want to know.

isaac_dede's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:49 PM

the only problem that i see with it is this , you are hurting and were your motives out from a get back stand point? I think that cheating is disgusting so don't get me wrong ,.. but honestly she prob already new or was suspcious and how embarassing is it to her for you to tell her .. I feel bad for her ..

my motives weren't for revenge...in fact i let my sister tell her because i knew it would be weird for her to hear it from me. I just seen that she was planning on having kids and so i wanted her to know

Sweetswift's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:50 PM
I would've wanted to come and tell me what was going on if I didn't know. What if the positions were reversed and she knew...wouldn't you want to know...I believe everyone should hear and known the truth

itsmetina's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:51 PM
no people should be honest we have the right to live life hoestly

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:51 PM
Sorry to hear that cheating is never acceptable!! but if your married , what are you doing on a dating site?

IndnPrncs's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:51 PM
oh hell no don't feel bad!

Nervesgone's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:52 PM
I always hated it when I was the last to know!!

It's show and tell time!devil

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