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Topic: lying!!!
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Mon 02/11/08 11:10 AM
And to add a little levity...Brad Paisley's song "I'm so much cooler on-line"

I work down at The Pizza Pit
And I drive an old Hyundai
I still live with my mom and dad
I'm five foot three and overweight
I'm a sci: fi fanatic, mild asthmatic
Never been to second base
But there's a whole 'nother me
That you need to see
Go check out Myspace.

'Cause online I'm out in Hollywood
I'm six foot five and I look damn good
I drive a Maserati, I'm a black belt in karate
And I love a good glass of wine
It turns girls on that I'm mysterious
I tell 'em I don't want nothing serious
'Cause even on a slow day I can have a three-way chat
With two women at one time.

I'm so much cooler online
I'm so much cooler online.

I get home I kiss my mom
And she fixes me a snack
I head down to my basement bedroom
And fire up my Mac
In real life the only time
I've ever even been to L.A.
Was when I got the chance with the marching band
To play tuba in the Rose Parade.

But online I live in Malibu
I pose for Calvin Klein
I've been in GQ
I'm single and I'm rich
And I got a set of six-pack abs that would blow your mind
It turns girls on that I'm mysterious
I tell 'em I don't want nothing serious
'Cause even on a slow day I can have a three-way chat
With two women at one time.

I'm so much cooler online
Yeah, I'm cooler online.

When you've got my kind of stats
It's hard to get a date
Let alone a real girlfriend
But I grow another foot and lose a bunch of weight
Every time I log in.

Online I'm out in Hollywood
I'm six foot five and I look damn good
Even on a slow day I can have a three-way chat
With two women at one time.

I'm so much cooler online
Yeah, I'm cooler online
I'm so much cooler online
Yeah, I'm cooler online.

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Mon 02/11/08 11:15 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Mon 02/11/08 11:18 AM

hey girlie , I am iced in today , how are you ? I would much rather deal with them on the net then in real life. But honestly after everything I have been thru I listen to everyone with a filter .. I Keep in mind that they are prob full of crap .. A weed wacker would be good .. but a lot of times I think woman don't keep that filter up or take the time to check someone out and then are pissed when the predictable outcome happens... I also follow that law of attraction , you know my hippy dippy ways, I hate to give to much energy to the negative cause i don't want to attract it to me.. BAD JUJU:cry:


Shoes- schools closed all over Ohio- I had jury duty this morning but got away w/out being seated.
As to men... I've been lied to, sure. But I try to go with my gut. I exoect to be lied to in many ways, but I am careful. If you get jaded then you can close your mind off to the good, honest men. Such as the one I found. I don't look for lies, but you know when they are there. The really good liars lie with some element of the truth, so you got to look harder at them. I go with my instincts. flowerforyou

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Mon 02/11/08 11:17 AM
yep..says it all.but why??? im me,im nothing special and have no money ..and i dont feel the need to build this perfect picture of myself on here..i know it happens all the time..all im saying is, just think before you do it..think of the people your going to hurt and the consequences!! thats all!!!!:angry:

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Mon 02/11/08 11:21 AM
Yeahhh a hard man is good to find oppps I mean a good man is hard to find .. I just think that we all spend way too much energy complaining and not enough in being thankful.. I have been lied to too ... His bad .. his lost .. cause he can be replaced I can always find someone that does not want to be good to me.. I stopped looking for love and am kicking back and letting it find me this time..and if I don't find it WELP big deal I will have a life well lived.. Liars suck cause I get hurt twice first by the truth and second because someone I thought was a friend lied... but the worst lies we tell our the ones to ourselves... flowerforyou :heart: I am sooo glad that you met your Mcdreamy you seem so nice and so deserve it .. Muahhh

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Mon 02/11/08 11:22 AM

yep..says it all.but why??? im me,im nothing special and have no money ..and i dont feel the need to build this perfect picture of myself on here..i know it happens all the time..all im saying is, just think before you do it..think of the people your going to hurt and the consequences!! thats all!!!!:angry:


Jenny~ you assume that these are people who care, or would take your request to heart. Liars are not "good people"... they care only about themselves and how they are perceived. If this was not so, they would not lie. and they do think about it first, they think about their lies. Seriously. What consequences?

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Mon 02/11/08 11:22 AM

yep..says it all.but why??? im me,im nothing special and have no money ..and i dont feel the need to build this perfect picture of myself on here..i know it happens all the time..all im saying is, just think before you do it..think of the people your going to hurt and the consequences!! thats all!!!!:angry:


The kind of person who would lie doesn't care about the hurt it would cause or the consequences .... two different ends of the spectrum of humanity ... there is no reasoning or talking logic with them. You just have to shake your head and walk away.

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Mon 02/11/08 11:23 AM

yep..says it all.but why??? im me,im nothing special and have no money ..and i dont feel the need to build this perfect picture of myself on here..i know it happens all the time..all im saying is, just think before you do it..think of the people your going to hurt and the consequences!! thats all!!!!:angry:
Jenny you are awesome , I am who I am all the time too ' unless my evil twin has appeared then watch out .. hang in there you will meet someone that will have your values ...

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Mon 02/11/08 11:27 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Mon 02/11/08 11:29 AM

Yeahhh a hard man is good to find oppps I mean a good man is hard to find ..

flowerforyou :heart: I am sooo glad that you met your Mcdreamy you seem so nice and so deserve it .. Muahhh


I found a hard man, a good man, and an honest man. And believe it or not, they are all the same man. Thanks, shoes. He is McDreamy and McSteamy wrapped up, but without the promiscuity.laugh .

There were A LOT of liars I had to weedwack to find him. It's jist how it is. The why does not matter, in the end. smokin

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Mon 02/11/08 11:33 AM
I got sucked in on another site.. by someone who was not even remotely honest. She was pretty skilled... and lied to every one.

Did I take it personally? Yes..for a short time. Then came to the realization that it was not really all that personal. Did it hurt? Of course..but that passed pretty quickly, all in all...

Do I look for it to happen again? Nope.. not as a first approach. If she could change the way I treat others? Then that would mean she got to me pretty deeply. She didn't, after all was said and done.

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Mon 02/11/08 11:34 AM
this guy was only a friend ..nothing else..its the lies he told me and his poor girlfriend..im not cut up about him as a man...im hurt becoz he felt the need to lie about stupid things and his girldfriend..im over it but she isnt and i feel for her..thats all

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Mon 02/11/08 11:45 AM


Yeahhh a hard man is good to find oppps I mean a good man is hard to find ..

flowerforyou :heart: I am sooo glad that you met your Mcdreamy you seem so nice and so deserve it .. Muahhh


I found a hard man, a good man, and an honest man. And believe it or not, they are all the same man. Thanks, shoes. He is McDreamy and McSteamy wrapped up, but without the promiscuity.laugh .

There were A LOT of liars I had to weedwack to find him. It's jist how it is. The why does not matter, in the end. smokin
I have had some moments in my life that are such moments of bliss that I am so thankful of all the bad stuff because it led me to this moment of Happiness.. the good will always out weigh the bad ... :heart: and the inbetweens is why we have friends...

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Mon 02/11/08 12:31 PM
I love who I am, so what's the point of lying..ohwell
Then if someone I'm talking to doesn't like me cuz of something I do or say. They really didn't like me in the first place.

Just Be Yourself People.. drinker smokin

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Mon 02/11/08 12:34 PM
Liars + explode = all gone... laugh

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Mon 02/11/08 01:18 PM
**** everyone in here we all lie it is human nature

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Mon 02/11/08 01:23 PM

I agree, Lying seems to be an epidemic on here lately!!!


Its an epidemic everywhere! All we need to do is remember this is the net and if you take away the keyboard and the monitor,half the people here on this site and many many more would never talk to you.Sad things are like that but thats life.We hope in our day that eventually we'll come to weed out the players and at 50,I still have a hard time but its getting sooooooooo much easier.I dont have a life so i am online alottttttttttttt!
Fake photos too.Whats up with that $hit?Im old NOT blind!glasses
Hate the game not the player I suppose! huh

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Mon 02/11/08 01:28 PM

**** everyone in here we all lie it is human nature
ermmmmmmmm speak for yourself..im talking about being deceitful..and hurting people..i dont do that even if you do!

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Mon 02/11/08 01:29 PM
amen baby!

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Mon 02/11/08 01:30 PM
People need to be truthful to themselves before they can be truthful to others.

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Mon 02/11/08 02:07 PM


**** everyone in here we all lie it is human nature
ermmmmmmmm speak for yourself..im talking about being deceitful..and hurting people..i dont do that even if you do!


Don't give me that ****, you are lying right now

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Mon 02/11/08 03:36 PM

**** everyone in here we all lie it is human nature


I tend to agree with this, to a point anyway.. Honesty is not something you can achieve simply by avoiding dishonesty. It actually takes courage and desire... work. We all fail from time to time for a variety of reasons.

What my life experience has taught me thus far:
Those I hear who claim they have never and will never? The ones who are really effected by others who lie...? Are usually the ones to watch out for.

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