Topic: may have messed up
franshade's photo
Thu 02/07/08 12:30 PM
Good luck to both of you!!!!
smokin

stevenpwis's photo
Thu 02/07/08 12:33 PM
thank you very much

no photo
Thu 02/07/08 12:34 PM
and quit analyzing everything........geez youre going to give yourself a heart attack!!!noway laugh noway laugh

stevenpwis's photo
Thu 02/07/08 12:36 PM

and quit analyzing everything........geez youre going to give yourself a heart attack!!!noway laugh noway laugh


Nah, it'll be a stroke. Strokes are what runs in my family...hahaha

no photo
Thu 02/07/08 12:37 PM
get used to using only one hand then!!:wink:

stevenpwis's photo
Thu 02/07/08 12:38 PM
haha

franshade's photo
Thu 02/07/08 12:40 PM

get used to using only one hand then!!:wink:


lmaoooooooooo
:wink: :wink: laugh laugh laugh laugh

s1owhand's photo
Thu 02/07/08 12:46 PM
laugh good luck with your stroke drinker laugh

j/k

stevenpwis's photo
Thu 02/07/08 12:57 PM
thanks, I will have a great limp

BlondGuy561's photo
Thu 02/07/08 01:51 PM
also look for things she does that you can fit in. perhaps, you can meet her sometime wednesday for dinner, maybe just 30 minutes would work. if you're willing to work with her schedule, see what her homework study times are, maybe you can help, and not just be a distraction, if you're willing.

make sure you're on the same page, that spending more time, doesn't have to be just time for you, ie she can be completing other tasks.

i think you were headed that way from your post, just make sure it's clear.

good luck

stevenpwis's photo
Thu 02/07/08 02:52 PM
so i just tell her that when i said i wanted to spend more time with her, it could mean helping her with her homework and studying?

Kelleigh's photo
Thu 02/07/08 02:56 PM
Trust me, she doesn't like you...A chick will MAKE time if you're cool enough. You don't do it for her. Move on, find another, and learn to take a hint. drinker

stevenpwis's photo
Thu 02/07/08 02:59 PM
Edited by stevenpwis on Thu 02/07/08 03:00 PM
wow, thanks for that kelleigh, you're pretty smart.

Kelleigh's photo
Thu 02/07/08 03:05 PM
Edited by Kelleigh on Thu 02/07/08 03:06 PM
Ha ha. If you want it candy coated, I'm sorry. It is just my opinion, take it or leave it, but it is probably right on...brokenheart

Nickinolosers's photo
Thu 02/07/08 03:07 PM

I've been seeing a girl for a month, she is going to school for her masters, she's taking 6 classes and she works 3 overnights a week. We only see each other about 3 hours a week, usually Sunday evenings before she goes to work. I realize she is busy, but I want to spend a little more time with her. I emailed her this morning telling her that I like her a lot and would like to spend more time than we do together. I'm not asking for a ton of time with her. She emailed me back saying that she definitely wants to spend more time with me, she just doesn't know if she has much more to offer. She said how she is stressed out because everything she does is getting cut so close. She apologized for not spending more time with me, and said she probably shouldn't be dating anyone right now because she is so busy and it really isn't fair, but she likes me and enjoys spending time with me. I'm just trying to communicate to her what I was hoping for, only asking for maybe 2 or 3 hours more time with her a week, even if I am with her while she is doing homework, I don't really care.


Ya think??

stevenpwis's photo
Thu 02/07/08 03:14 PM
Edited by stevenpwis on Thu 02/07/08 03:16 PM
well kalleigh, if she didn't like me she wouldn't be my girlfriend. I don't know where your opinions come from, but it doesn't make too much sense. For being such an old woman, you are pretty childish. She has a busy schedule, and I do understand that.

Kelleigh's photo
Thu 02/07/08 03:20 PM
Well, it sounds like you don't need advice then. I know when I "really like" a dude, I don't say maybe we shouldn't date because I don't have the time. That's not even an option. However, if I didnt really care, I would say just what your girl said. Anywho, you must have it all figured out by now, so sit there and keep waiting smokin

stevenpwis's photo
Thu 02/07/08 03:22 PM
yep, you said i don't need advice...you didn't give advice, you just said she doesn't like me, you may need to look advice up in the dictionary.

lulu24's photo
Thu 02/07/08 03:23 PM
nah...she's just covered up. i've had plenty of guys that i really enjoy being with...but can't due to the constraints of my life.

kids and school come first. period.

maybe you can watch a movie or something while she's studying...or read a book. but don't distract her every few minutes with a word or something...just be there doing YOUR own thing.

stevenpwis's photo
Thu 02/07/08 03:24 PM
when she says she really likes me and enjoys spending time with me that we do have together, i take that as her liking me.