This one girl just confuses the hell out of me, and I feel a little disappointed because of what happened.

To make a really long story somewhat shorter... I first saw her on yahoo! personals. She is a year younger than me, she sent me an icebreaker, I sent one back... I noticed somehow she got her AIM screenname on there. I tried IM'ing her but she was on her AIM mobile and didn't respond. A few days later, I was thinking of ways to get a hold of her, when it occurred to me that some people use their AIM screenname as their myspace URL. I found her old profile, and asked one of her friends to add me on myspace, which she did. She then added me on facebook.

That night, I had to work, and while I was work, she texted me (my facebook has my number listed), and I had no idea who it was until I looked back at any earlier text saying it was her. I took that as a good sign and I didn't mind it, despite it being completely creepy if it was I texting her (which is kind of a double standard, by the way)...We texted quite a bit to each other and I was hoping for a date...She said we should meet so I said okay...I'll take you to lunch on that Sunday (it was Wednesday or something)...She kept telling me how excited she was for it, which made me happy. She also said that if we didn't click right away, I seemed like I would make a great friend. She lives 40 mins away, but goes to school and works halfway between us. I was going to come to that halfway point for lunch.

Anyways, the night before, she told me her niece was coming into town and she needed to convince her mom that she could go (she lives with her mom, despite her being 18 ). I figured she'd still come, but around 10 PM, she said it wouldn't be happening, but she'd come see me the following weekend. Well, that was supposed to be this last weekend...And I haven't talked to her since Monday when she posted on my myspace wall. I didn't say anything wrong to her (in fact, I didn't really say anything). On Wednesday, she deleted me from her myspace, deleted my comment on her facebook wall...And after sending a message asking what her deal was, has now blocked me on facebook.

I don't get it, she was coming onto me strongly, and I was simply responding to her and I didn't say anyting wrong. Usually, I know when I **** something up, and I didn't do ANYTHING wrong, didn't call her when I was drunk or anything.

I don't know if I should call her and ***** her out or what. I know I didn't really waste money on her or anything, but I thought she would have been worthwhile to date. I've been hurt worst in the past, but I just want to know what the hell made her stop talking to me...

Any ideas on what it could be? Her only ex is dead, he died from cancer while they were dating about 2 years ago...So it's not like her ex is dating her again, and she even said we could be good friends if we didn't date.

ummm...maybe she still doesnt feel confertable dating being that the last person (and that the only) died. i mean it could be a big step for her. as for further contact? probably not going to happen. and i wouldnt bug her on it. just leave it be. you win some, you lose some.

Welcome to the world of women........we change our minds like our underwear!!!

Let it go dude... You can dread about what went wrong, or you can focus your energy on somebody new that may be more compatable.

Yeah sounds like she was just not ready for you.
Women are weird. I know I am too.

LOL, her yahoo personals ad is still up... It'd be nice if she could just say "hey, I'm not interested" but she couldnt even do that.

Not really a great answer for me, though...

Well, I'm doing that, but the fact that I turned down a girl because I was thinking this other girl might work out is bothering me...

She pursued me more than I pursued her (she always initiated the texting)...Hell, I didn't even give her my number. And there was nothing I said that could have seriously made her say "this guy is weird, I'm bailing on him"

maybe she hasnt gotten around to changing her ad or taking it down. i mean its seriously better to convince yourself that it wasnt you but her rather then dwell on it being you. she has obviously made up her mind and thats the way its gonna be. yeah it sucks but it happens. just find someone new.

Seriously... you will NEVER get into a womans head. They will vouch for it lol
I had this girl that I went on one date with, but we talked everyday up to that. After the date she was still like "I think about you all day, bla bla bla..."

Then a few days later she told me she is looking forward to meeting this other guy....

get used to it brother.

Then call the other girl and tell her the situation is different now. You have a 50/50 chance if you try.. 0 if you dont.

yaaaaaaaaaaa get used to it!!! Oh and btw we don't understand you guys either!!! Its a little tit for tat yanno??

maybe she wasnt 18 hun but younger and when it came to the date day got scared

very doubtful considering her facebook and myspace age and you can't exactly fake your facebook age considering she's had it for a few years now and she wouldn't be faking it back then.

Guys arent very hard to understand.

sports...beer...sex

Thank you!!!! I will write that down!!!

LMAO
god i love girls
theyre so funny

if i were in your shoes id just laugh my ass off and find more girlies

We arent that funny!!! We are tooooooooooo complex and we analyze everything to death........and we forget that you guys arent the same way!!!!

and it irritates the hell outta us