Topic: okay so i have a serious question
Peacekeeper101's photo
Mon 02/04/08 01:19 AM


there are no rules... period. Society puts way too much pressure on us when it comes to dating. My biggest advice to you, would be to stop looking at women as potential girlfriends/lovers/etc. Just talk to them as you would any of your guy friends, find woman friends first... When you take her on her first date, you do it as friends. There's no pressure to keep up interesting conversation, because you allready have plenty to talk about. When the time is right, go for that kiss and the rest is history...

But yeah, like I said... don't stress so much over it. Look for friends, not for lovers.
see thats good advice...i think i will try that. oh by the way. thanks for the service. i tried my luck out with the army but i just got hurt pretty bad. fort benning was gay too. but thank you much. theres nothing better than defending our country hooah?


Thank you, it really helps us to see people support us like that. And don't feel bad, i sprained my ankle twice in basic (at relaxin jackson no less). Recycled once... then broke the same ankle later in my career... got metal in it now, so it should be good to go, lol.

holland01's photo
Mon 02/04/08 01:25 AM



there are no rules... period. Society puts way too much pressure on us when it comes to dating. My biggest advice to you, would be to stop looking at women as potential girlfriends/lovers/etc. Just talk to them as you would any of your guy friends, find woman friends first... When you take her on her first date, you do it as friends. There's no pressure to keep up interesting conversation, because you allready have plenty to talk about. When the time is right, go for that kiss and the rest is history...

But yeah, like I said... don't stress so much over it. Look for friends, not for lovers.
see thats good advice...i think i will try that. oh by the way. thanks for the service. i tried my luck out with the army but i just got hurt pretty bad. fort benning was gay too. but thank you much. theres nothing better than defending our country hooah?


Thank you, it really helps us to see people support us like that. And don't feel bad, i sprained my ankle twice in basic (at relaxin jackson no less). Recycled once... then broke the same ankle later in my career... got metal in it now, so it should be good to go, lol.

i broke some vertibrea in my back. so i assume you have a mechanical mos? not combative right? the idiot i am signed up for the infantry...bad chioce. but either way i support you from the home front and really apprehiate what you are doing for us and this country

Peacekeeper101's photo
Mon 02/04/08 01:30 AM
All I can really say is that I work for the MPs. Can't go into any real detail because of where I'm currently at, you understand, I'm sure.

holland01's photo
Mon 02/04/08 01:31 AM
yes yes yes. well that sound like it seriously sucks. i mean i was never looking forward to going there. but it has to happen

YourLove1's photo
Mon 02/04/08 01:32 AM
change your hair style , from what i see in your picture alot of girls are really not into that style ..

holland01's photo
Mon 02/04/08 01:33 AM

change your hair style , from what i see in your picture alot of girls are really not into that style ..

and thats what i wanted to hear! constructive critisism! that neverhurt to tell the truth! now thank you!

YourLove1's photo
Mon 02/04/08 01:37 AM


change your hair style , from what i see in your picture alot of girls are really not into that style ..

and thats what i wanted to hear! constructive critisism! that neverhurt to tell the truth! now thank you!
youre welcome .. in your school or town just look around to see what other guys look like that girls go for ..that will give you a idea of what style you wanna go for ..

darkowl1's photo
Mon 02/04/08 01:37 AM
you've proven here to us that you are very intelligent, and ask great honest questions, take that intellectual knowledge, soften it up a bit, and chat to them like you're doing here, with us (easier said than done, i know) for women are generally quite understanding, and sensitive. and definately as a rule, looking for long term earlier than men. so you've got that advantage over most already, i hope this knowledge helps you relax, and give confidence for an smoother time in the beginning, and we are here for you, that is generally what we are all doing here, building up each other's confidence, because it's rough out there.drinker drinker drinker

holland01's photo
Mon 02/04/08 01:40 AM

you've proven here to us that you are very intelligent, and ask great honest questions, take that intellectual knowledge, soften it up a bit, and chat to them like you're doing here, with us (easier said than done, i know) for women are generally quite understanding, and sensitive. and definately as a rule, looking for long term earlier than men. so you've got that advantage over most already, i hope this knowledge helps you relax, and give confidence for an smoother time in the beginning, and we are here for you, that is generally what we are all doing here, building up each other's confidence, because it's rough out there.drinker drinker drinker
youve got that one right on saying that it is tough out there. i mean i have to get out there more too. and now i relize that i need to have more confidence. and a new hairstyle. and im sure other things. just the only way as one has already stated, is to get out there and learn already i guess. i just guess i had the confidence i should in my looks

darkowl1's photo
Mon 02/04/08 01:42 AM
the hair style is great, depending what girls you like to attract, i'm an old goth, and that at one time fit industrial-punk-goth style, but that might help you in what girl to look for. as what you like from a girl, that is most important. not that she fits in.

holland01's photo
Mon 02/04/08 01:45 AM
true true true...i have no certain type of girl i like but i mean i want a girl that speaks her mind and a nonconformist to a certain piont

darkowl1's photo
Mon 02/04/08 01:49 AM
i'm here in new orleans and we just had our gothic parade, i think you would have had a ball, and yes, you would have fit right in. infact, maybe, for down here, more wild. you would have double takes everywhere, my friend, they are truly gorgeous to look at. drinker drinker drinker devil

holland01's photo
Mon 02/04/08 01:51 AM
i dont know...i do have to admit that i find those kind of girls attractive...

darkowl1's photo
Mon 02/04/08 01:53 AM
it's the latex, and leather, and lace.... and all that black, wwwoooo!!!!devil devil devil drinker

holland01's photo
Mon 02/04/08 01:54 AM
haha the kinkiness
itll get to any guy

darkowl1's photo
Mon 02/04/08 01:56 AM
Edited by darkowl1 on Mon 02/04/08 01:57 AM
you probably got fifty or sixty years of combined experience just now, from all of us, what does that make you feel like?
i hope it makes you feel stronger, it would me.

holland01's photo
Mon 02/04/08 01:58 AM
haha it still makes me nervous to actually talk to a girl. the last time i approched a girl i said, "hi my name is meet, nice to danny you."
i just turned around and walked away as soon as i said that
it was pretty embarrassing

darkowl1's photo
Mon 02/04/08 02:01 AM
that's funny, i concur, i sneezed all over my biggest crush, and of-course, what do you say after that?

darkowl1's photo
Mon 02/04/08 02:05 AM
pick out a common interest or denominator that you see, like where's a good place to shop for a new outfit, would you help me with putting together a ragged new style, girls love to help with that. they will dress you, it's their nature, and a challenge for them

holland01's photo
Mon 02/04/08 02:07 AM
haha dressing me is a challenge! i like how that was put