Okay I ask this because of one of my closest male friends.

He says he doesnt want to be with anyone, but he ALWAYS goes out of his way to hang out with me.

He likes to hang out but when we hang out at his place he's usualy on the computer.

He doesnt think any female is worth his time right now but Im the only female he likes to be around for long periods of time.

He wishes I had more self confidence and esteem and calls me out on it and does what he can to make me feel better.

Has little to no sex drive but likes to walk around the appartment nude when im there. (charming but no)

He has me SOOO confused. Ar Men more indecisive?!

maybe he likes you just dosent want to tell you

I doubt it. Hes planning on leaving the state this summer for good. Ive tried to talk him out of it and only get a "we'll see"

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It sounds more like you are his comfort zone. Not his love interest. Sorry.

hmm idk spends time with you no one else tries to impress you naked lol it is like a kid in school punching you lol he so likes you

To a point i rather be his best friend. Makes it easier for when he leaves.

agreed!

umm did u ever think he might be gay? nothing against them..but i had a guy friend that did that...and 2 years later he came out of the closet....

He's not indecisive nor are "all" men.

You are in pal-ville

As for being indecisive, it seems that way since I've never dated or been friends with a guy that could pick a restaurant or a movie. Always, oh, whatever you want. ARG!

Good lord girl, I haven't an answer for you. I am/was/?? seeing a guy who wants to have a relationship but really only wants to get together once every 3-5 weeks or so. The sex, when it happens, is spectacular. Once we've gotten together the first week or two he doesn't want to talk much then he is texting, calling, IMing and talking more and more then he wants to get together again. If I initiate, I'm crowding. If he does, it's ok but the entire time it's like everything is great and wonderful and this is just the way things are supposed to be. I'm like WTF make up your mind. It's just back and forth. When I've asked what he wants, yes wants to be friends and more but go slowly...hell, either you're interested or not, it's been 4 months...man up and decide already.

miss kiss,i would say run as fast as u can,,,it ant gonna get any better

If all he wants to be is friends - thats fine. Doesnt bother me i have alot of male friends that i care about.

If he wants to be more i wish ehw ould tell me instead of this back and forth thing

She doesn't need to run. He's doing it for her by moving. You wanna run from players and red flags. Since they are already friends, and he just wants to be friends. She can live with friends, or lose the friendship. Why give up a friendship if you don't have too?