A question of heart here.

I have been on this site for over a year.
I have met some very Beautiful people and have many friends here.
But,,,,trying to find a REAL "ALL THAT" love connection, has proven, to NOT BE FOUND!

I have had some dates and some live together times and still have the hurt that follow's THAT "TRYING" experience,,,.

So should I just say im ONLY HERE to DATE?
And NOT say im looking for a REAL LOVE?

Or should I just keep on feeling like im Stright-up, but THEY just want to TALK REAL, but them selves live only in their minds,,"REAL".

So date and good times, W/O hearts being hurt?
Or keep on TRYING?

atleast you are getting dates

I was following ya up until the end... ok, wha?!?

Yo man, keep on trying, life is full of hurt and pain, thats why life isnt easy.
On one of my blogs I have on another site, I wrote" sometimes you have to weed out the "maybes" to find out who the one to be is", to make a long story short, keep trying and dont give up.

You do what you find is best for you iam...
You just have'nt met the right lady yet!

OK,,should I JUST GIVE UP, and become a plaything for women
to use and NOT CARE about me or where we go in life?
And see life as "THEIR WAY" all fun and NO REAL FEELINGS?

Or should I keep searching for a real life and love?

Or JUST LEAVE this place called INTERNET and live in the NORMAL LIFE? Let this place stay as I found it.



Just wandering what you folks think YOU would do, or try or go.
If YOU were ME?

I cannot tell you what is best for YOU... I can only tell you what I would do...

and me...

I'd keep trying

Wishing you every success.. may Love fill your every day

never give up .... never just cause she's not here now does not mean she won't sign up tomorrow and look at the ppl you have made as friends

I am trying both worlds...
I have not found the real thing either and I have been here
for quite some time. I get a bit discouraged too.
Look it at it this way: at least you are meeting people and
have had dates! I believe that it will happen adventually.
Maybe you are trying too hard?

{{{{{Iam}}}}

Stay with us, and have some fun

But as MsTeddy----that smart bear---said

Try both. Don't limit your options, you are a great guy


And I would miss you!!!

Let me know when you decide on the "plaything", we'll talk more later...

The decision is untimately yours but life is too short to settle for anything less than what you truly want. In my heart I have to believe that there is someone for everyone. The true gems just take longer to find. And in the words of Bloody Mary from the movie South Pacific, "If you don't have a dream, how you gonna have a dream come true".