we always see in lots of profile pages(most of em belong to girls), that "i would like a good conversationist" so in order to always try to make myself better, i am trying to answer this question. "What is the FIRST quality that makes a guy to be called a good conversationist?".... i am thinking is it the ability to have and express reasonable thoughts in a wide range of subjects and being able to argue properly in order to defend his own positions, or being a good listener to others is the one that comes first(OR IS IT SOMETHING ELSE!!), if it turns out to be the first one, then i'd be damn because i am still learning english and it is going to be tough for me to stand out around here..... tell me what u think i'd be happy to hear from you