Sorry, this may be a long read. Back in September of '07, I met this amazing woman who was a couple of years older than me. We got along well and one day she actually came to me and asked if I wanted to go out with her sometime. Honestly, that is the first time that has ever happened to me.

So we spent time together every weekend and really enjoyed each others company. She always told me that she was shy so sometimes her ability to communicate was none existent. Come Christmas time, she even came to my family's place and for the day/night and left in the early afternoon. While there, she told me I was very romantic, etc. and that she really enjoyed her time with me and that she was looking forward to spending time with me in 2008.

So come New Year, she seems extremely distant to me and really hesitant to talk to me. We got together on a weekend and she still seemed rather occupied but her mood seemed generally good. I knew things were not good as she decided to leave early as she had never done that before. The next day, she emailed me and said that she did not want a boyfriend and was not looking for a relationship at all. She just wanted to be friends and never really meant what she said to me earlier back during Christmas. A week after that, she phones me and rudely goes on about how she wants nothing to do with me and that I better never email or phone her again.

Just yesterday, I found out from a friend (who was wondering what happened to us) that she is really involved with this other guy and that they have been in a relationship for quite some time now.

Obviously, I'm pretty down about this. I mean, I knew these things happen to people all the time but I don't know if I'm at fault or what? How do you let go of something like this? Again, I apologize for the read but I'm just feeling really down at the moment and needed to vent somewhere.

DAMN,,,im so sorry :( karma will get her back so dont worry about that..worry about healing each day...it will get easier i promise..!! give things time..

Honestly Dude, Your not at fault. She lied to you. I know it hurts and is confusing, and It will be. But you didn't do anything wrong. She did.

i know you are feeling bad right now but you seem to be a great guy. these things do happen and it is sad but you never fail when you give your heart. you only fail when you refuse to give it. hang in there and the hurt will heal and you will find someone else

pull out the sissors..and cut the rope..

takes time..time is on ur side...go with the feelings and before u know it u will wake one day and it will be brighter..

her loss..ur gain....

sorry to hear u r down...

time heals all my friend...hell i was friends with a girl for 7 years dated 1 year and now after 2 years she stil wont talk to me(8 years total together)..

in the end u gotta let go...

sux but thats life for ya

SENDING A HUG...

Yeah, things are rather tough. I know time heals, I'm just trying to keep myself preoccupied but am still relatively new to the city. Because of that, there is still this inescapable feeling of loneliness...especially on weekends.

What city?

I'm sorry.

You seem like a really nice guy.
You obviously deserve better.
I hope things work out for you.

hang out here....that will take up all ur time and u will forget all ur worries...

cheers mate things will get better over time.!!!!

Lethbridge, Alberta. A small city about an hour and a half from Montana's border.

THought I might be able to help ya out with some clubs or something to got to, but I haven't been there. Sorry.

No worries, I don't think many people know of Lethbridge at all!

any woman who cheats or lies is not worth having. count yourself lucky you got out.

go out and buy you a present. call it a "good ridance" gift.

any woman who cheats or lies is not worth having. count yourself lucky you got out.

go out and buy you a present. call it a "good ridance" gift.

any woman who cheats or lies is not worth having. count yourself lucky you got out.

go out and buy you a present. call it a "good ridance" gift.

I never looked at that way. There is a lot of truth to that!

Just kiss this goodbye.I'm sure you deserve better/Let it go.You will find the real one sooner or later.