Everyone is judgemental, even if they don't realize it. The only problem with that is we end up missing out on some great people....
For example, on my profile, I recently shaved my head && have the pic with me && my shaved head as my main. People look at it && pass by. On my profile I also have a pic up that's me with long hair && all femed out. If that was my main pic, I could guarentee id have my inbox blowin up with messages! if you don't believe me, go look @ it && tell me if that was my main pic you wouldn't pay me any attention.

I think you look like a doll. I hope you find what you are looking for. Good luck!

Well people are what they are, believe me it happens to all of us.....


Good luck with what your looking for Nina

Well this is my observation. This is an online dating site. Pretty much that opening picture is all you have to go on at first. So whether we like it or not, this is a very visual medium. You have pictures and you have the type written word and until you actually meet someone, that's pretty much all you have. I will say you must be a daring young lady to have shaved your head. That in itself tells the world you are confident about who you are. As far as paying you any attention, well I am heterosexual so with or with out hair, I wouldn't ask ya for a date, but I sure would be glad to have ya as a friend! 10 KUDOS for you and good luck in all you do!

takes 7 seconds to make a first impression, and your right, hell not to be rude, but i thought u was a dude at first so i would never clicked on it in the first place,

It's reality!, I think i have some pretty good pics but most look at my profile and pass on as well...just the way it is. Men are visual creatures, me included! It doens't make someone a bad person simply because they respond to an attractive picture..its nature.

Oh ****, I thought I could reply to comments! Haha! Im on a sidekick so the internet blows on it. Whoops!

Thanks sweety =)